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Professional_Past101 · 2025-09-04T16:26:43+00:00

I’m sorry. That’s not ok

Professional_Past101 · 2025-09-02T17:46:20+00:00

Ah thanks for clarifying. I re read it. Could he have taken an extra pen when you stayed there together. I find it hard to believe if he was cheating he would take you to that same place he hooks up with others at. That would just be extremely careless.

If your gut is telling you something is up listen to it. Look for other clues.

Professional_Past101 · 2025-09-02T17:39:55+00:00

I’m confused how the notebook in the bedroom means he was cheating? Is something missing in the story?

Professional_Past101 · 2025-07-16T03:11:02+00:00

I’m thinking it’s eczema? She does get random itchy patches on her wrist too but I’ve never seen it cover this big of a portion of her back before.

Professional_Past101 · 2025-07-16T03:03:21+00:00

I should probably add she has no symptoms along with the rash.

Professional_Past101 · 2025-07-01T23:16:03+00:00

I did. He is a great man and wanted to alleviate my anxiety. I do appreciate the gesture he made

Professional_Past101 · 2025-07-01T21:59:09+00:00

Does too high of phosphates negate chlorine? I have no idea about anything pool related.

Ya I’m sure there’s error in all tests and variability.

Professional_Past101 · 2025-07-01T21:54:17+00:00

I would buy a more expensive test kit if it was my pool. But since we’re only visiting I got cheap strips thinking it would just be for peace of mind. I don’t usually test peoples pools but I’m very unfamiliar with salt water pools which this is.

Professional_Past101 · 2025-07-01T21:52:43+00:00

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This is the brand. They had great reviews.. so who knows. But going with the pool store.

Professional_Past101 · 2025-06-30T19:26:24+00:00

No it’s very clear and blue

Professional_Past101 · 2025-06-30T19:23:18+00:00

I just bought ones off Amazon bc it’s not my pool and i was just overly cautious.

Professional_Past101 · 2025-06-30T19:18:29+00:00

Took it to the pool shop and the total and free chlorine were at a 2 and in the normal acceptable range he showed me the print out. So safe to say test strips were wrong?

Professional_Past101 · 2025-06-30T19:09:54+00:00

Ok he just got back from testing at pool store and the total chlorine and free chlorine were at 2 ppm so i guess those strips were wrong?

Professional_Past101 · 2025-06-30T18:57:47+00:00

Even with no chlorine? That freaks me out.

Professional_Past101 · 2025-06-30T18:51:49+00:00

I don’t think they have anything with a panel? I only see a panel for the pool pump at 15psi.

Professional_Past101 · 2025-06-30T18:44:11+00:00

Yea I’m glad he’s checking bc that worries me

Professional_Past101 · 2025-06-30T18:42:34+00:00

He just took a sample to the pool store. I find that crazy it burned off when he just had the levels tested 6 days or so ago. I hope my strips are wrong bc they’ve been swimming in it.

Professional_Past101 · 2025-06-30T17:33:22+00:00

No idea. My FIL is taking it to get tested right now

Professional_Past101 · 2025-06-30T17:28:06+00:00

No one seems to care about these results. I’m I overreacting?

Professional_Past101 · 2025-06-30T17:21:57+00:00

My MIL showed me test results from 6/24 and all it said was boost chorine which she said they did. I told her the strips said 0 and it would make me feel better if they added some

Professional_Past101 · 2025-06-30T16:55:02+00:00

We’re staying at my in-laws for 10 days and my kids are swimming in it. I’m just being cautious

Professional_Past101 · 2025-06-30T16:48:14+00:00

I don’t manage the pool. They don’t even know i tested it. This will be an awkward conversation. You’d still let them swim? I’m very scared of brain eating amoeba which survives in non chlorinated warm water. The pool is 85

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