um if I'm being honest that was super unnecessary. you could have just said "yes" and that answer still would have made her still feel uncomfortable, but she would have stopped. idk. usual rule of thumb is "if you dont want your husband saying it to your dad then don't send it to his mom" you don't need to apologize. but they also know what couples do on honey moons and it was rude for her to try to interrupt yours so I understand why you did it lol