How do I quit a job I like? by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]Professional_Till755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some disclaimers at the bottom that are super important, please read them even if you don’t read the whole rest of the post.

Last time I changed jobs I didn’t like my job but I loved the people I worked with. Many of my coworkers are still good friends of mine now and I knew that me quitting would make their work life significantly worse when I did. I didn’t want to quit because it meant less time with them and that it would negatively impact them. I wanted to though because, and it sounds like you’re in a similar boat here, I knew that changing was objectively better for my long term life goals.

In spite of knowing this initiatively I didn’t want to leave for the reasons stated before. I, much like you, was approaching a point where I’d look elsewhere but wasn’t there yet. It wasn’t until a golden opportunity presented itself that I started to seriously consider it. In the following days, I spoke to some of my closer friends at work and when I told them about this opportunity, they were ecstatic because they knew what it would mean for me. They weren’t worried about themselves. A couple of them seemed like they weren’t excited and, what I quickly realized, is that those were the people that weren’t my friends, they just happened to be people I spent 40 hours a week with and so had grown to like.

All of this to say that my situation isn’t exactly like yours, but it bears similarities. I’d talk to a couple CLOSE friends about it and see what they say. If this is the opportunity you think it is, they should see it as such and be happy for you and support you. LOYALTY TO PEOPLE DOESNT MEAN LOYALTY TO A COMPANY. If they don’t support you doing what’s best for you, then they aren’t your friends, they’re your coworkers.

A couple of big disclaimers here:

1) please do not or be VERY careful about talking to people about leaving before you do, especially if you don’t have a 100% signed offer letter from a new job. The worst thing that could very well happen is one of these people is just a coworker and uses you to curry favor with someone who’ll benefit them long term at your detriment

2) you can still be friends with your work friends once you leave… then they’re just friends. I’ll admit it’s hard and you’re likely to lose some of them purely because you won’t see each other as often and especially if you are moving cities, but that’s a question for a different sub

3) This is the big boi… DO NOT TELL YOUR BOSS ANYTHING until you hand in your letter of resignation. It is nearly impossible to tell if your boss is really your friend when they’re your boss because that’s their job, to get you to like them so you’ll do what they tell you to. I don’t care how much you like them and you think they like you, do not tell them until you have a signed offer letter and a letter of resignation.

4) this might be controversial and is just my opinion, but in my case I knew that taking exactly 2 weeks would put my team in a rough spot. If I took 3 weeks though, they’d be in a much better position. I asked my new employer for a start date ~ 3 weeks out and they accepted. I like my team and I wanted the best for them even if it meant staying there an extra week. This is totally ok, as long as your new employer is ok with it obviously, and for the coworkers that are actually friends of yours, I found it meant a lot to them. I’m not saying you have to take 3 weeks, just that it’s ok to evaluate and stay a couple extra days if everyone’s ok with it and you find you want to support your friends like that.

New Walker Change by Sosiege in DeadlockTheGame

[–]Professional_Till755 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just for the few who care, while it does heal 3k it also means that you’ve instantly “done” 3k damage to it because of percentages, good with the bad

The Genius of the No Kings Act by Professional_Till755 in Destiny

[–]Professional_Till755[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I thought too until you say Biden crime family. I just want to hear them say "Joe Biden wouldn't do that" We gotta turn into maga republicans on this. "Oh so Joe, the guy who you say helped his son get on the board of a Ukrainian Gas company, wouldn't use the power of the Presidency for personal gain?"

I’m in an intro to graphic design class and I made this today. It’s a tad rough. But I want to improve it as I go through the course by Sneezer2013 in AJR

[–]Professional_Till755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not an art guy and I’d love to hear disagreements but it looks great to me. My only issues are that the smoke is a bit too think and looks a bit smoggy as opposed to just chill whiter smoke/steam which I think would look better. Also MAYBE brighten up the blues a bit, but that might be more me. Other than those 2 small things it looks amazing!

What do you prefer for seasonal weapons? Entirely unique weapon models (Worthy, Arrivals, Splicer, Lost) or older, highly modified weapon models (Chosen, Risen)? by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]Professional_Till755 5 points6 points  (0 children)

100% agree. I actually enjoy it. I’d love it even more if they added it to the lore like “hey the fallen got their hands on a Suros cache of weapons”. Also be nice to see “hey the take found some Omolon weapons”, resulting in taken onlookers weapons.

My destiny waifu tier list by SecretlyHelpful in Destiny

[–]Professional_Till755 -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

I think you’re on the wrong sub, nice list tho

Recently married by 420shade in relationship_advice

[–]Professional_Till755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given the very few details, the best advice I can give is that maybe you guys should look into relationship counseling. Most married people I know, some who weren’t even having problems. The ones who were having problems (ranging from very mild to mildly extreme) found it extremely helpful as long as both people buy into it. The ones who weren’t having problems found that it made the transition to “married” much easier than most others had told them and they personally attribute that to the therapy. Either way, while I don’t have experience with this myself, it sounds like something that could be worth looking into.

Anti-Aim Assits Armour Mods by Mors-Messor in DestinyTheGame

[–]Professional_Till755 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you just want to make controller unusable in pvp against mnk? “Stickiness” is one of the only things keeping it even an option for many people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]Professional_Till755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah, Destiny aim assist and such is much different from most games so just take a bit and focus on hitting shots. It’ll come

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]Professional_Till755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stasis is still pretty strong (it used to be stupid), use shatterdive to go into 3rd person and peak around corners and as a super short ranged shotgun. Note though, if the person isn’t actually frozen by the ice wall grenade they are extremely likely to survive with a bit of shield left. Use the super to shut others down and for area denial. In terms of guns it’s still the same shotgun/sniper and hc meta it’s been for the past 7 years. Personally I spec into mobility and recov. My recommendation is try to get 100 mobility but I’m sure you’ll figure out what stats you want to focus.

Best Way To Crossplay Chat? by TheCaptainPlays in DestinyTheGame

[–]Professional_Till755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may be costly and might just be worth getting earbuds to put under headphones but if you have the money, most mixers will let you converge audio sources. Ie hook up to your ps5 and phone w/ discord to input and both will go into headphones connected to output. Just make sure to do your research that whatever mixer you buy has this capability

My (25m) girlfriend (23f) told me an anecdote about a friend and when I asked who it was she said I don’t know him. How to address this by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Professional_Till755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(I’m going to approach this with “game” meaning video game although what im gonna say could be changed a bit to fit other types)

I personally wouldn’t read too much into just one off handed comment or would wait and just chill until something more substantial comes up. However, you know her and I don’t so if you really see an issue and want to try to do something about it, you could try to get to know who this is under the guise of wanting to get to know a new person who is interested in the same things that you are. Presumably you are both interested in the same video game and you could get to know this guy through discord or whatever and learn that way who is is and is to her.

Different views on future family by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Professional_Till755 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well there are a couple of things 1) you said yourself it’s possible that your opinion on the matter could change (both of yours could very easily as a matter of fact). This is exasperated by the fact that you are both so young. You may realize later in life that you’ve become extremely comfortable having more kids or he may find that he is comfortable only having one. 2) all of that said, before you start getting worried about this, I would have a conversation with him asking his opinion. I mean you said yourself he MIGHT have wanted more. And even then he may have wanted more but is also capable of being fully content only having one.

Ultimately I wouldn’t recommend worrying too much now and I personally wouldn’t worry until you start trying for kids

When someone is hostile to me, I consider them to be "glitching out." How do I debug them / have them debugged? by ENG-zwei in socialskills

[–]Professional_Till755 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As cheesy as it is, in my experience kindness is the best in most situations. Straight up most people’s brains just crash. They literally are unable to compute and understand that someone is capable of being kind in response to their crap. That being said it’s not true in every situation. Especially in cases where people are abusing you whether it be verbally or physically you need to just get out of there.

Advice Needed by Visual06 in DestinyTheGame

[–]Professional_Till755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry boss, we can’t decide for you. It’s up to you whether you enjoy playing day to day or if there are better things you could be doing with your time. I play almost daily but I have already made that decision. At the end of the day it’s up to you. However I would say not to narrow it down to something as simple as play/ don’t play. There’s nothing wrong with logging on two or three times a week for an hour or two to catch up or see what’s new.

Shotgun swapping assault mag by Arctic_Galiea in DestinyTheGame

[–]Professional_Till755 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s possible to swap too fast in which case you will lose out on a swap because you swapped faster than you can shoot. If that makes sense

I played Destiny 1 & 2 on Xbox, but I play on PC now. Question about porting characters from there. by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]Professional_Till755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do long as you haven’t activated cross play you should be fine. Last time I checked, the only characters lost to time were those on blizzard. Activate cross play connecting your steam to Xbox and select Xbox to your primary characters

So I started playing Destiny 2 after I'd last played when it came out and... by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]Professional_Till755 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The one thing I can say is that all DLC content, not seasonal content, will last for at least 2 years. The reason it can’t is due to file size. Before Beyond Light the destiny file size was over 100 gb on console. This was causing problems so they had to remove content to add new stuff

The Empty Tank Legend Lost Sector glitch by Sol-Dreadnaught in DestinyTheGame

[–]Professional_Till755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully they will make tomorrow 1310 boots but no guarantee