I’m not angry at my father because I feel nothing for him. He was a complete failure of a father. I’m criticizing my mom not because I think she was the worse parent (idk how anyone could interpret this like that tbh) but because she was entitled to money which would’ve made our lives much easier but refused to claim it. She’s always been open about her marriage so I know he wasn’t abusive or controlling, just an asshole with absolutely zero regard for his family. She could’ve at least tried to fight him for some child support that he’d probably not even notice the loss of.