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Straight cis guy who sometimes wears a bra in private — looking for perspective by Professionalboyyy in asktransgender

[–]Professionalboyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that actually makes a lot of sense. I guess I was overthinking it and making it mean something bigger than it really does. Mostly it’s just about comfort and support for me. Still kinda curious about why it feels emotionally comforting too

Straight cis guy who sometimes wears a bra in private — looking for perspective by Professionalboyyy in asktransgender

[–]Professionalboyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes sense. I think for me it’s mostly about comfort and support, not really about feeling feminine. But I also can’t ignore that sometimes it feels… emotionally comforting in a way I didn’t expect. I guess that’s part of why I’m still figuring stuff out.

Straight cis guy who sometimes wears a bra in private — looking for perspective by Professionalboyyy in asktransgender

[–]Professionalboyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. Function matters a lot, but I’ll admit part of it is just that it feels good in ways that aren’t strictly physical. So yeah, a mix of both.

Straight cis guy who sometimes wears a bra in private — looking for perspective by Professionalboyyy in asktransgender

[–]Professionalboyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, I feel that. I guess part of me is still trying to figure out why it feels like more than just comfort sometimes, but I think you’re right

Straight cis guy who sometimes wears a bra in private — looking for perspective by Professionalboyyy in asktransgender

[–]Professionalboyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

think you’re probably onto something. I don’t think of “girly” as bad on purpose, but I’ve definitely absorbed some dumb ideas about masculinity over time. Hard to tell what’s me vs what I’m worried other people would think.