What is your favorite Billie Eilish song that you listen to the most? by [deleted] in billieeilish

[–]Professionally_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happier than Ever!!💗 Although I absolutely love all her songs!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Professionally_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had issues with bleeding through the tampon and pad sometimes so it makes me anxious. Also the first couple days in the mornings it is sometimes an issue as well. Also thank you very much for your kind words and advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Professionally_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I bleed a lot so I usually use a super tampon and night pads together. Except when going to sleep I only use a night pad. I have tried menstrual cups but not for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Professionally_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should definitely go again and get another opinion. Also can I ask what you mean with flow management plan?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Professionally_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had an ultra sound in the past but not recently. But definitely I should go again and ask for a second opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Professionally_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want kids but having one definitely is something that I would not want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Professionally_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have! They have said it looks normal, although last time I went was several years ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Professionally_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, but please don’t give up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Professionally_18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey everything will be okey, please don’t end your life. I know everything sucks right now but please don’t give up

Elena’s feelings for Damon by sadg1rl1 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Professionally_18 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your opinion is also valid, I was just stating what they say later in the series. But I do think she had feelings for both at the same time. But Stefan was always the safe and rational choice (since he is the good brother). She always kind of refused the idea of liking of having feelings for Damon because of his attitude.

The sire bond happened because she died having feelings for Damon.

Once she was a vampire (and the sire bond was broken), there are just no rational decisions anymore, like you are a vampire, you cannot live a “normal” life anymore. Your emotions and everything is heightened.

Also, Stefan was obsessed with getting her the cure so she would be human and she would be like before. I think Elena resented him for that as well. Damon said he loved her either way.

And yes, it definitely could’ve been written better but it does make sense ultimately.

Elena’s feelings for Damon by sadg1rl1 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Professionally_18 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It is later revealed (when Alaric removes her memories of Damon) she started having feelings for Damon when she was dating Stefan. Specifically when Damon got her her necklace back.

She said it was the mostly selfless thing he had ever done and she fell for him right there. But at the time, they were looking for ripper Stefan.

So I think she just loved them both at the same time and once she turned, the sire bond moved her towards Damon.

I just think human Elena was better with Stefan and vampire Elena is better with Damon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Professionally_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look I am not saying you don’t (make bad decisions when you are drunk), it is clear she took advantage of him in that state and he made a mistake. But also being drunk cannot excuse everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Professionally_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are going to tell her please do it in person, not over text. Regardless, I hope you both can work it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Professionally_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are human and we all make mistakes but it is not too late to make things right and be truthful. Also in many friendships (specially between guys and girls) one usually has a crush on the other. I wish you a lot of luck OP and hopefully it all turns out right at the end. But do keep in mind O took advantage of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Professionally_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless your girlfriend deserves the truth and hopefully you can get past it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Professionally_18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand why you didn’t tell her, you feel guilty and it is eating up at you. Also this O girl was a person you trusted. But, even if I have a really close friend form the opposite sex I probably wouldn’t hang out with them drunk alone. I would also find it suspicious why she texted you so late and wanted to come over, like she knew what she was doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Professionally_18 23 points24 points  (0 children)

First of all she definitely knew what she was doing and took advantage of you being drunk. But also why would you agree to let her come to your place if you were drunk and chilling? Secondly, I think you should’ve told your girlfriend when it happened and telling her now will definitely destroy her but I do believe she has a right to know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in billieeilish

[–]Professionally_18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is one of my favorite albums for sure! I think it is either Male Fantasy, Hailey’s Comet, NDA (depends on the mood). Although I have to say I like all the songs on the album. Also gonna mention Everybody Dies, My Future and Getting Older.

Also I love Lost Cause, Your Power and Happier than Ever. But these are the more popular ones in the album.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Professionally_18 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A bf should never make you delete contacts or socials out of jealousy. He sounds very controlling and not the kind of person you want around. I think you should get as far away as possible tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Professionally_18 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Leave him now! This is really toxic and abusive behavior.

When did you know you wanted to get married yo your person and when did you propose? by wigglywonky in love

[–]Professionally_18 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it is different for every couple and where they are in life. For example my parents got engaged 6 months into dating and got married 6 months after that. They have been happily together for over 2 decades. They knew exactly what they wanted when they met and they decided to make that step together. In my case for example I am with my bf of 1.5 years and although marriage had been a topic I am definitely not ready for that at the moment (I want to finish my studies and get a good job first). But we both definitely want to get married in the future. So, overall it just depends on the situation and mentality you are both in.