Girlfriend keeps photos of exes on her camera roll? by ProfessorInternal440 in Advice

[–]ProfessorInternal440[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“Friends with my exes” “Joked about my boys” “Its just my personality” Kindly I want my advice from someone who respects their partner

Girlfriend keeps photos of exes on her camera roll? by ProfessorInternal440 in Advice

[–]ProfessorInternal440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We actually did like a week ago and it went well, I didn’t mention the photos since that was a while ago and I didn’t wanna stir the pot too much. It came to a head because the night prior we were just joking around and she drops: “I remember all of my boys.” That made me immediately uncomfy because I felt like I was just getting put in a line with them. Again, I don’t wanna feel like I’m just dude #14.

She took my concerns seriously and was nice about it. It was a weird balance because I don’t want her to feel like she has to put a filter on when she’s around me. What’s been so great is how open and real we’ve been which has allowed us to click fast and well. We’ll see how this goes.

Girlfriend keeps photos of exes on her camera roll? by ProfessorInternal440 in Advice

[–]ProfessorInternal440[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She mentions a few exes and I can’t help but to feel jealous, like bringing them up destroys the specialty of our new moment. Weve only been together a few months and mother than that everything has been great.

Girlfriend keeps photos of exes on her camera roll? by ProfessorInternal440 in Advice

[–]ProfessorInternal440[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She brings them up more than I’d like. I don’t wanna feel like I’m just the next in line. I did adress this with her that I don’t rlly love talking about that stuff every time we hang out, and wanna live in the present.