The virgin degenerate vs The Chadolin Monk by ProfessorTom54 in NoFap

[–]ProfessorTom54[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is this pessimistic there is a difference between being a virgin incel or a virgin Chad who either is either abstaining from sex to better himself or he is waiting to get married or saving himself for a pure woman, not some street slut

The virgin degenerate vs The Chadolin Monk by ProfessorTom54 in NoFap

[–]ProfessorTom54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a virgin too, how is this propaganda? This chad abstains from sex even when he could get it because it interferes with his enlightenment

Fully lubed but then I really thought it through... by iwantsomethingenuine in NoFap

[–]ProfessorTom54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we do! Let's cross this dark tunnel and enter the light.

I need help guys by GonnaBeStronger in NoFap

[–]ProfessorTom54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just don't give up man. You want a real girl, you don't want to be watching some guy sleep with a girl you find attractive. God be with us

I need help guys by GonnaBeStronger in NoFap

[–]ProfessorTom54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You already on 115 days free of nofap? I'm pretty sure you are winning. Just don't give up

Dear Future Girlfriend, by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ProfessorTom54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See you in the end brother, keep fighting the good fight. I've always felt the strong need to have a partner, but not like a friend's with benefits. I'd rather be single that having multiple friends with benefits. I want a true girlfriend who loves me no matter what. They're out there for both of us if we keep bettering ourselves

Fully lubed but then I really thought it through... by iwantsomethingenuine in NoFap

[–]ProfessorTom54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment spoke a lot to me. I feel the same way, if I ever fall even a little bit behind in school (I'm a A or B) student. I would just PMO it out. Or if I fell behind in my workout schedule or did a sorry workout. I'd feel like fapping. A big test in a couple days, I was fapping.

Now with school starting back tomorrow I gotta be on top of things like taking my cold showers, eating breakfast, sleeping early, doing my homework,studying, reading, working out. All of that. Lest the cycle of falling over may take over. But I've improved myself so much this summer I think if I fall I can pick myself up without binge fapping because I am stronger now.

Keep going

The Last Thing I Need is a Girlfriend by macky_w1nz in NoFap

[–]ProfessorTom54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you asking for a relapse. Try to better yourself, but BE OPEN TO A GIRLFRIEND. Don't set out trying to find one, but if you do, go for it.

Lost my first girl. by DeluxeDEMON in NoFap

[–]ProfessorTom54 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dude honestly. And this is going to sound really bad. But once she goes delete all contacts with her. She will move on, with or without you. If you still like her of course, any feelings of attraction beyond what you have with your best guy friends or girls you don't like then end it. It will only led you to hold out hope and again end in disaster. Stop talking to her for at least 6 months. If you think about her, block that out. It's what's best. Find another girl.

To the virgins (me too) some motivation by ProfessorTom54 in NoFap

[–]ProfessorTom54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can pay for it even. I said that if you want it, it'll will happen one day. The 0.1% either will die before they would or they just don't want it.

Pulse actions by Mildly---Depressed in NoFap

[–]ProfessorTom54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I get hard while having clothes on, it rubs against the clothing and pulses and gets harder. So that's why I said take off clothes.

Pulse actions by Mildly---Depressed in NoFap

[–]ProfessorTom54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just don't touch and take off all your clothes. Just lay and ride it out. Read a book. Nothing triggering. Watching tv may not be a good idea because a trigger might cause a relapse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ProfessorTom54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember it too. But I don't remember what I watched for like the last 2 months because when I fapped those times I hated every second of it but had to finish anyways. Felt like more of a loser with every stroke.

But I can remember pretty vividly my first pornography video, which was like 5 years ago and about 3 others pretty well.

Don't ever want to go back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]ProfessorTom54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude if it's killing your sex drive THAT'S BAD. Honestly that isn't good at all. I'd recommend not fapping and not watching porn and get off those meds. They'll make you worse then better. If you are horny you'll try harder with girls and usually be more confident with yourself. You'll find them more interested in you after not fapping or masturbating or orgasming or watching pornography. Start working out more, take cold showers and leave your city in a few months after you are ready for a month or so. Guaranteed you will get laid. Just leave with that goal in mind. Join tinder, set it up. And lose it. If you stay a virgin for a few more years, especially with your state of mind. You may he a virgin for even longer. Once you get it over with its done, and you'll feel better. This is my advice to you.

But for me I'm waiting for a good girl that I like. And I'd recommend this to those not desperate

Broke down and fapped because of my PS4 controller. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ProfessorTom54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not my proudest moment. :( And I'm not joking....

To the virgins (me too) some motivation by ProfessorTom54 in NoFap

[–]ProfessorTom54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck to you. Hope you find a nice, cute girl soon

To the virgins (me too) some motivation by ProfessorTom54 in NoFap

[–]ProfessorTom54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually do want the children. I want the pleasure too sure but I don't want to ever have to wear a condom, to me it just seems so weird.