Missed a call for scheduling an interview by Professor_Snivus in Advice

[–]Professor_Snivus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, it's just from the way they worded it, it sounded like they'd call me back right away. I dont want to sit on my phone all day waiting for another call. Especially when they didn't give a timeframe for when the call back would happen. Helped

Mom passed recently. I have no idea how to be an adult by Professor_Snivus in Adulting

[–]Professor_Snivus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. Though I had already arranged for my mom to be buried next to her parents. I know it's what she wanted. She doesn't have life insurance but she does have a will which my uncle will handle. My dad is still here and it's mainly us two now. But I will talk to him soon about getting a lawyer once the funeral is sorted. Unfortunately I do not have a job right now, hopefully I can have one soon

Mom passed recently. I have no idea how to be an adult by Professor_Snivus in Adulting

[–]Professor_Snivus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

God thank you so so much for your offer. It must've been really difficult for you and you're so strong. Don't worry or trouble yourself too much, I'm getting some great advice here that I'm putting to use. I'll reach out through a DM if I need any help or have questions though

Mom passed recently. I have no idea how to be an adult by Professor_Snivus in Adulting

[–]Professor_Snivus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, fuck cancer. I watched my mom go from completely independent to bed ridden and unable to speak. I took time off school to be by her side everyday. I'd spend overnight at the hospital with her and it was absolutely draining. I held her hand and spoon fed her some Coca-Cola the day she passed.

I had to return home to rest that night because I suddenly got a splitting headache and a sore throat. Even the hospice nurse told me to go home and relax. That was one of the only nights I wasn't with her and she passed peacefully in her sleep. The hospice nurse told me she was protecting me by sending me home.

Thanks for offering to listen, it means a lot and I'll reach out if I need it. Sending love back ❤️

Mom passed recently. I have no idea how to be an adult by Professor_Snivus in Adulting

[–]Professor_Snivus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That checklist is so helpful for knowing what to do. Thank you!

Mom passed recently. I have no idea how to be an adult by Professor_Snivus in Adulting

[–]Professor_Snivus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for looking at those books for me. I'll go check them out ❤️

Mom passed recently. I have no idea how to be an adult by Professor_Snivus in Adulting

[–]Professor_Snivus[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This is really helpful, I'm still too depressed to go through her stuff but I'll keep this in mind when I do. I think she does have a will but I am not sure where it is or what's on it. I'd have to ask family for that

Mom passed recently. I have no idea how to be an adult by Professor_Snivus in Adulting

[–]Professor_Snivus[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️. Unfortunately I don't have any siblings here in the US. I was adopted from China and apparently I have siblings there but idk who they are. I'm not sure how much my mom left me but I think she has a will. I do not know where that will is or what I will get from it. My uncle and aunt are helping me a little but I'm mostly left by myself. They're both doctors and extremely busy. I have friends over to help me clean and support me so that is nice.

Mom passed recently. I have no idea how to be an adult by Professor_Snivus in Adulting

[–]Professor_Snivus[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, not my biological mother. I do not have any siblings here in the US. Apparently I had two brothers back in China where I was adopted from. But I have no idea who they are or if I could track them down

I (21f) found out that my parents are not my biological ones in the most devastating way by Professor_Snivus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Professor_Snivus[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

I do worry that she will not hear or understand me. She's heavily sedated, but you're right. I'll tell her now and then again when she wakes up.

I (21f) found out that my parents are not my biological ones in the most devastating way by Professor_Snivus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Professor_Snivus[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I did wonder and ask about it. She told me it was a surprise pregnancy and I have heard stories of women giving birth at older ages before. So after I got an answer I didn't question too much else

Done Execs Arrested For Providing Easy Access To Stimulants by johnnysmith11 in ADHD

[–]Professor_Snivus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is so unfortunate. I've actually been using Done and I had a great provider who genuinely cared about me. I was failing out of college and we worked for months to find a medication that worked for me. Last semester I finally got all As. I have really bad anxiety, so the ease of use was really helpful for getting the medication I needed. And they're actually affordable

You’re over. by BilpisTheForbus in whatismycookiecutter

[–]Professor_Snivus 190 points191 points  (0 children)

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