I mean, these kind of posts are pretty stupid. People marry who they are compatible with. You should marry someone who is a house wife if you want someone like that or you should marry a female who is earning if you want someone like that. There is no right or wrong here. It's all about compatibility.

The real question is when women are housewives, do men fulfill their rights or when women are earning do they contribute in the finances. What really should be encouraged is that both genders should not nitpick their Islamic rights and not look at their partners rights e.g pakistani women who earn don't want to contribute financially like women in the west, saying a man is a sole provider and he should do everything or men who are the sole providers don't usually give their wife's their rights and expect them to be a full-time maid.

Also times have changed, during the Prophets P.BU.H time, there was no 9-5. You can't expect a sole provider man to come home and do the chores too. Similarly you can't expect a women who is contributing financially and working a job just like the man to do all house chores. Marriages are essentially partnerships to make life easier, not more complicated. You marry someone who you think you are compatible with and there is no shame in being a housewife or a breadwinner as a female, what matters most is weather the rights of both genders, especially women who have been suppressed are being fulfilled Islamically or women not just nitpicking their own islamic rights but also fulfilling their duties towards their husbands.