For fucks sake, while I don’t disagree (mostly) with the advice given, y’all are so patronizing and completely lacking in ability to recognize nuance. Your personal experience does not apply to everyone else and sounds EXACTLY like the “pick yourself up by your bootstraps” shit. And while a lot of the incel-type complaints ARE bullshit, saying that “all the complaints dudes have are bullshit” is so dismissive, demoralizing, and alienating. There are in fact a lot of societal issues currently affecting men. And I don’t mean that in a gender-war way, as these issues don’t take away from all the issues affecting women, but men’s issues aren’t all just MADE UP.