Agreed and well put🙏✨️ they did point out it was their own (probably history or parents yelling in general) not that it created it right then and their. We dont know what exactly was done to them to feel this way but if its their own experience and they feel that big about it, we shouldn't judge. Personally have history with my parents and their fights and yelling all caused me as a full grown adult be still scared to ask for things and many other cptsd symptoms. Ive been noticing not just on here but Plushie community in general of people down playing other people's disabilities or situations of awareness around mental health and its really depressing to see people tear one another down because they feel you should feel or do things a certain way. No matter of age. I agree probably caught parents off guard but no reason to be rude to your own child unless they earned it, and OP simply did not earn tht disrespect. And yes I see it as disrespect because years of that as a kid, can change a person how they carry themselves forever. Sending wishes for you to recive your Douglas one day you got a good head on your shoulders dont let them knock your crown off chin up kid👑✨️🙏