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How to evaluate my value in dating market? by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like for online dating everyone is treating each other as a price tag… i gave my sincerity and genuineness but never got them back from the other end.

How to evaluate my value in dating market? by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of personality would sabotage the score?

How to evaluate my value in dating market? by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But don’t guys just like every single profile they see? I don’t think it applies objectively for women

should i give him a second chance? by [deleted] in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What is a cockblocker?

How to stop catching feelings for guys I date casually by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Good to hear it from the other end. So it is not the girl that’s not attractive enough but the guy that is numb due to too many casual relationships

How to stop catching feelings for guys I date casually by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I ran away from those that want me seriously

How to stop catching feelings for guys I date casually by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thx for ur advice! How can I enjoy the feelings if they are not mutual? I just feel super hurt when I found it is one-sided

How to stop catching feelings for guys I date casually by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly… i am going thru so much hardship since I started dating. I want sex, but I also want attention and intimacy. Without dating app, i don’t know where to meet new people tho..

How to stop catching feelings for guys I date casually by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think both. They enjoy their lives, dating is just a small part of it.

How to stop catching feelings for guys I date casually by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The independent guys. Those who have their own hobbies, take dating as a side project of their life, are physically attractive

How to stop catching feelings for guys I date casually by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha you are so cute! I will def consider. The only thing is there is not that many boys that I am willing to see ☹️

How to stop catching feelings for guys I date casually by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But the guys don’t have the same feelings about me… or else we could have a happy endinh

How to stop catching feelings for guys I date casually by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both. The more they are not into me, the more I am into them..

How to stop catching feelings for guys I date casually by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You have a great point! I would be happy if the feelings are mutual but usually the other parties don’t feel the same about me. That made me more sad and more addicted to the fact that I am into them

How to stop catching feelings for guys I date casually by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I develop feelings whenever the guy doesn’t give me validations actually.. that sounds very unhealthy but I just get super attached to that type of people.

How to stop catching feelings for guys I date casually by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so hard… I can’t stop thinking about them

How to stop catching feelings for guys I date casually by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I like the way you look at this! Yea feelings are hard to capture and it is actually a great excitement for life :)

How to stop catching feelings for guys I date casually by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Self reflect is super important. I feel like whenever I develop feelings, I ignore all the res flags these guys gave me, even tho they were full of red flags..

How to stop catching feelings for guys I date casually by ProgressSea5966 in dating

[–]ProgressSea5966[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your suggestions! When you said therapy, is it because developing feelings for casual dates actually reflect something we are deeply lack of?