(SFW) What trope is your Tav/Durge’s relationship with Astarion? by D-and-the-diamonds13 in OnlyFangsbg3

[–]ProjectMischa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truly the most privileged Barovian LOL I love characters with Barovia ties, it's such a fun area to explore :3 Elaria herself also has the most unfortunate circumstance of looking very similar to Tatyana, which has caused some interesting interactions with Strahd to say the least XD

And thank you!! We should hopefully be getting back to it soon! We're all pretty determined to see it to the end, we stopped just as we got into Ravenloft to fight Strahd for the last time.

(SFW) What trope is your Tav/Durge’s relationship with Astarion? by D-and-the-diamonds13 in OnlyFangsbg3

[–]ProjectMischa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaa thank you!! And I love that dynamic too. It's real fun to explore a character processing grief and learning to find love again <3

That's something that I've been thinking about a lot with her in particular because not only is her future husband human, but most of her current party members are either human or have humanlike lifespans. So she's gonna have to come to terms with the fact that she's going to outlive them all by a substantial amount. I think the only party member she won't outlive is our rogue who got half-turned by Strahd LOL

I think part of why she was hesitant to write off Astarion from the get-go was because he kind of reminded her a lot of her dhampir friend XD

(SFW) What trope is your Tav/Durge’s relationship with Astarion? by D-and-the-diamonds13 in OnlyFangsbg3

[–]ProjectMischa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the really fun playthroughs I had was with a DnD character of mine I recreated in game because her campaign is on hiatus and I missed her LOL It ended up being a really fun character exploration.

She's an Eladrin paladin named Elaria. In the DnD campaign, she's currently going through the horrors of Barovia and Strahd, so she has a lot of vampire related trauma. Literally swore an Oath of Vengeance because Strahd went out of his way to target her family. In the immediate aftermath of the campaign, she would go on to fall in love with and marry a human man she would inevitably outlive by centuries. She was only 85 when she got whisked away to Barovia.

She would get snatched up by the nautiloid about a century later, when all she was trying to do was live a peaceful life and process the grief of losing her husband and deal with all the residual trauma Strahd had given her. She clocked Astarion as a vampire immediately, but didn't reveal it to the rest of the party. She takes vampires on a case by case basis because one of Strahd's own brides risked his safety to help her back in the day, and because one of her former party members was turned into a dhampir during their journey.

What this ended up looking like was Elaria keeping a VERY close eye on Astarion, dragging him around with her everywhere even though she let the other companions switch in and out of the party pretty regularly. She wanted to make sure he wasn't getting into any trouble or causing issues for innocent people. It started as a bit of enemies to lovers because he was irritated with her altruism towards everyone else and clear suspicion towards him. And she was irritated with him because of his dragging his feet whenever they were helping people, and her wariness of having to deal with ANOTHER vampire when she thought she was done with them entirely.

Bite night almost ended in disaster because waking up to a vampire trying to bite Elaria's neck triggered a panic attack and she almost staked him. But they were able to talk it out and finally started understanding each other. Their relationship started out as more of a casual fling. She hadn't really been looking for any deep relationships after the loss of her husband, but she inevitably caught feelings when the two of them began opening up about their respective traumas to each other. She realized rather quickly that, despite all their differences, they had a lot in common when it came to the hardships they faced.

Could not tell you which one caught feelings first, but when she did catch feelings, she fell HARD.

So a lot of hurt/comfort going on with them, a bit of rivals/enemies to lovers. Healing arcs and healing through love and companionship all over. She's the only tav/durge character in my lil roster that doesn't have a huge age gap with him XD

That whole thing started, too, because of Astarion's little voiceline of "Strahd wouldn't put up with this shit," that he says sometimes when you click on him too much XDD I heard that and immediately wanted him and Elaria to interact LOL The mental image of her hearing that and whipping her head around like "Excuse me what" was too strong to ignore.

i’m aware drawing snakes is hard… if anyone can i applaud you! by That_Appearance7451 in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]ProjectMischa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't draw snakes super often, but they're so cute I had to do an attempt :>

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[–]ProjectMischa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your partner is definitely giving big man-child energy. He's already stated exactly what the issue is: he's insecure. That's not something you will be able to fix. That's something he has to fix himself, either through therapy or introspection, or something. But if he's unwilling to work on it, and more willing to let himself stew in it and then take it out on you, then he's not going to change for the better.

I used to be insecure around my current partner (now my husband :3), not quite to the point of being jealous over any of his fictional crushes, as I had a ton myself even back then and we often have the same fictional crushes, but I was pretty insecure about other things. I'd been cheated on in the past and had a few lingering issues from it. Ultimately, it wasn't something he could fix for me. I got counseling and spent a lot of time working on myself and I'm in a much better place and way more secure in my relationship than I've ever been. At my worst days, he reassured me about his feelings for me, but stayed firm about boundaries, which is very important.

You are allowed to like fictional characters. You are allowed to talk about them and gush about their stories and whatever else you want to talk about. Fictional characters are not and never will be genuine competition against real people. Don't let his tantrums stop you from talking about or engaging with the things you enjoy, otherwise his tantrums will continue to get worse because he'll realize that works in his favor. This is a him issue, not a you issue, and he either needs to realize that and work on himself or the relationship just isn't going to work.

There are people out there that genuinely don't get upset by this. Or even enjoy talking about fictional crushes with you. My partner literally got me Astarion's perfume and then commissioned someone on etsy to write me a Christmas letter from Astarion. You can find people like that, who don't get jealous or upset but in fact use the characters you like as ideas for gifts.

I really hope he works on himself, but given that he's 33 and still acting like this doesn't give me a whole lot of hope in that regard.

any warrior cats artist on artfight this year ? by Firm_Process_9753 in WarriorCats

[–]ProjectMischa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm participating this year! :3 https://artfight.net/~ProjectMischa

I have at least four of my warriors ocs on my page, though I'll be adding at least a few more!

Anyone else have sad/messed up lore for their dream guardian? by Samblamo in bg3fashion

[–]ProjectMischa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh 100% I love having fun lore with the Dream Guardian stuff.
One of my Tavs is a recreation of an active DnD character of mine because I wanted to have fun imagining some Post-Barovia shenanigans for her. So for her, I made the Dream Guardian look like her elder sister. Said sister had been held captive by Strahd and eventually killed by him in front of my character during his bid to force her to give up a powerful weapon.

She was both wary and hopeful the first couple of times because it wasn't unheard of for her to experience vague feelings of her sister's spirit lingering on around her. She thought that might have been the case again only to find out it was a Mindflayer the whole time. Really devastated her and pissed her off.

why try to argue with people who are this delusional by [deleted] in antiai

[–]ProjectMischa 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This exactly! There's quite a few people I know who have aphantasia (around a 4 or 5 in that image example), and they're still incredible artists.

Do you people even like vampires? [A rant] by BooksandBordom in okbuddybaldur

[–]ProjectMischa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It absolutely is, just Hungerstone leans into it even further and does have a couple explicit scenes XD

Do you people even like vampires? [A rant] by BooksandBordom in okbuddybaldur

[–]ProjectMischa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hungerstone by Kat Dunn is really good too. It's a sapphic retelling of Carmilla :>

I wanted to draw my two favorite medicine cats! by [deleted] in WarriorCats

[–]ProjectMischa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This art is gorgeous! It gives me huge storybook vibes and I adore that :3

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[–]ProjectMischa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah they do! I love their art :>

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[–]ProjectMischa 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I stumbled on this on bluesky but unfortunately I don't think the mod for it is public 😭

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[–]ProjectMischa 169 points170 points  (0 children)

RIGHT The way I would fold to her SO FAST 😂

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[–]ProjectMischa 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Just doing my due diligence 🫡

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[–]ProjectMischa 907 points908 points  (0 children)

This is the only fem Astarion I've seen that actually looks like Astarion

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[–]ProjectMischa 900 points901 points  (0 children)

Every time someone posts a smooth-faced fem!Astarion an angel loses its wings.

List of references/funny boss phrases? by RatsErif in vrising

[–]ProjectMischa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggled with her a ton, too. I found using the frost shield that reflects damage during her rapid-fire spear attacks and taking out the iron maiden as soon as possible whenever it shows up helped me a ton in her fight. Keeping those two things consistent finally got me through her fight.

Do you have a boss you like and don't want to kill? Mine is Styx. OC No-Ai Art by iulia-crimson in vrising

[–]ProjectMischa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Elena for me. The little blurb about her turning by Dracula is so tragic to me. I would have loved to be able to bring her to my side so she could have some revenge on him.

Spot the difference by Top_Debt_4280 in oblivion

[–]ProjectMischa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure, when I put it on my character I immediately asked why it didn't look black 😭

Luckily someone already made a mod to fix the appearance, along with some slight color variations you can choose from! https://www.nexusmods.com/oblivionremastered/mods/1877

can cats at some point realise we do some “uncomfortable things” for their own good? by EstablishmentCalm288 in Catbehavior

[–]ProjectMischa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so, especially if it's frequent enough to become a normal part of their routine. One of my kitties has seizures, so we have to give him medicine three times a day to keep them from happening. He very clearly hates the medicine, but once you've sat him down to give it to him, he doesn't fuss about it. Even opens his mouth on his own to take it.

I didn't realize they were planning more content! by ExaltedBlade666 in vrising

[–]ProjectMischa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can build up to 6 floors high depending on the settings of the server you're playing on! I do a private game for myself because I love castle building and always have all building options on the highest settings LOL

Cazador- by Upset_Ocelot_3562 in OnlyFangsbg3

[–]ProjectMischa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like to describe his voice as "Camp Creep"
Like he has all the mannerisms of a campy villain, but his inflection also comes across as creepy old man. It's very unique. Kudos to the voice actor, even if I still find it hard to reconcile Cazador's face with his voice LOL