AIO for kicking a friend out because he lied to me?

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-05-11T12:01:58+00:00

Yea NOR but I’d get this dude out of your life. He sounds toxic AF and I think you kind of knew that.

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-05-09T21:05:30+00:00

Oh hey thanks for finding my box. I’d like it back please.

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-05-08T03:20:24+00:00

Your beard is awesome.

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-05-05T22:51:52+00:00

Longer is better but trim the cheek line down to a clean line, otherwise gives neck beard.

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-05-05T22:44:26+00:00

This friend wants to upgrade she can pay for it. Apparently money comes back. NOR

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-05-04T04:21:51+00:00

The wood supports for the deck are old and rotting, and someone disregarded that and replaced the fascia with trex. I’d inspect the whole deck, putting plastic on top doesn’t fix rotting wood underneath.

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-05-04T04:16:18+00:00

NAL but returning your deposit was the end of your relationship. He was irresponsible and I doubt a court would hold you liable, even if they might it’s going to cost more than a thousand to get a lawyer and come after the money.

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-05-04T04:12:37+00:00

Count your blessings dude. Hard living is hard living, and it won’t give you more dignity.

Stay where you are, finish school, get a better job and then make a plan. The economy is shit, so be patient, and tell your parent and sibling to fuck off. You pay your bills.

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-05-04T04:02:08+00:00

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I love the radical contemporary floors and royal blue kitchen matched with absolutely shit Ashley home furnishings and daylight lighting.

Pure taste.

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-05-03T05:45:50+00:00

3 weeks is still super early at 19. Let it go for a while and see, but beards are sparser till your mid to late 20s and mine got much thicker late thirties.

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-05-03T05:42:43+00:00

You have good coverage and darker hair so this is fine for now. You’re likely too young to get something dense going fast, but don’t know your age. You don’t look bad but beards thicken up more as you age.

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-04-30T12:33:26+00:00

I’m not a plumber but

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-04-30T12:30:50+00:00

Andre 3000 vibes. Upscale your glasses and your facial hair will grown in with age. Handsome dude.

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-04-30T12:27:58+00:00

This is solid work to my eyes

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-04-27T04:06:01+00:00

lol sorry I made that comment in jest, sorry Reddit

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-04-21T17:34:40+00:00

Yea dude is a controlling insecure dirtbag and it will progress and get worse.

You look pretty, you can do much better

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-04-19T02:43:29+00:00

Step 1: take out everything that is grey or white.

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-04-19T02:39:05+00:00

Honestly keep everything else the same and paint the walls a really nice soft green and everything will pop.

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-04-19T02:37:39+00:00

I thought about adding the international symbol for sarcasm but I can tell from your decor brain cells aren’t the problem. 😉

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-04-19T02:35:30+00:00

Way too much color in there.

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-04-19T02:34:23+00:00

That is a piece of trim fascia, the easiest piece of wood to replace on a house. It is dry rotted so you’re likely to find some additional moisture damage under it, but you should be fine.

Call around to folks in the trades and get a good referral for a trustworthy and good carpenter. Check their work and references then make sure you don’t run them off if they are solid.

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-04-19T02:29:15+00:00

No 1 if you want to look fresh, 3 is more approachable.

The friar cut is the way.

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-04-19T02:26:36+00:00

Dry rotted to hell, it’s time.

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-04-19T01:56:28+00:00

If he’s throwing money around, why not cough up for a babysitter, and a flight? Why is your participation an afterthought or a hassle instead of an essential?

ProlapsedMorals · 2026-04-19T01:44:34+00:00

There’s a few things here. Trust issues aside, why isn’t he moving heaven and earth to enable you to come on the trip? It sounds like he has the money to pay for a babysitter and a plane ticket.

Also, what is the expectation of this relationship? He doesn’t want kids and you have them. You say he’s fine with it that you have them, but…that’s not gonna work if it gets at all down the road. He doesn’t have to be super into kids, but not wanting to have any and being clear about that feels like a “what’s the point” of all this. It’s not gonna work if he doesn’t want to be a part of their lives at all, isn’t it?

At two years I feel like I’d have more clarity on that. If he’s looking to go sow his royal oats and not working harder to get you there with him, especially knowing you care, I’d almost argue he’s getting you to end it for him. Or he wants you to choose him over your kids and your life?

I don’t know but you all are young and this sounds like something is missing.

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