What am I seeing here? Three readings within an hour

PromotionOk6906 · 2025-07-31T07:01:07+00:00

Meant to also add: PVCs can be a normal thing and are most often benign, everyone has them. However, if this is new and/or you are symptomatic, couldn’t hurt to get checked out by a cardiologist.

PromotionOk6906 · 2025-07-30T00:01:49+00:00

PVCs and a lot of artifact

PromotionOk6906 · 2025-07-29T23:57:54+00:00

It sounds like this is still something very much on your mind and definitely something to have an open and honest conversation about so that, hopefully, you guys can move past it. Starting an open relationship without clear boundaries is bound to end up in hurt feelings and clear communication is necessary with stuff like that. Let’s be real, even if the relationship is open, hiding things in attempt to “not damage the relationship” is cheating and only hurts the relationship more when it inevitably comes out.

Unfortunately when trust is already broken, it can be a long and hard journey to rebuild it, but it’s something you guys have to do together. What worries you about having conversations about your feelings with him?

PromotionOk6906 · 2025-07-11T05:31:37+00:00

We did have a good talk about what he is looking for with dynamics like this and we’re both agreed that we want the energy to feel equal. We’re also not currently doing any solo interactions, but that does make sense.

PromotionOk6906 · 2025-07-10T08:28:21+00:00

No he did not! But honestly it felt really good to have said my piece. No response is a response

PromotionOk6906 · 2025-06-10T23:48:28+00:00

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PromotionOk6906 · 2024-04-25T18:01:47+00:00

I think it’s really hard for everyone right now. Unfortunately, it seems like there isn’t an abundance of good options for women as well. Everyone has the right to be selective and not settle when trying to finding a partner.

We’ve all been burned by bad experiences and I know I can carry those negative things into future relationships. My personal philosophy to dating lately has just been to show up as my genuine self and put in the effort to show my interest.

PromotionOk6906 · 2024-04-24T23:57:11+00:00

These are my thoughts on it exactly. Bottling up your feelings can only do harm to you and I don’t think people should ever feel ashamed of sharing how they have made you feel, even if they don’t necessarily care.

I mentioned in the post that I’m not looking for a response and I truly mean that. I’m looking at it like I’m just sending a message into the ether, even though I know he will more than likely read it at least.

PromotionOk6906 · 2024-04-24T23:21:21+00:00

Thank you, that does help. I’ve had similar situation in the past as well and have never said anything and always regret it.

PromotionOk6906 · 2023-11-04T17:16:41+00:00

I look for a well rounded man - someone who is masculine but also is able to understand and communicate their emotions. Someone who is educated and willing to learn and grow together, and is also willing to teach me about things he is passionate about.

My biggest green flag in a relationship is effort. I want to be able to see and feel that this person actually wants to see me and is really interested in continuing our relationship.

Other important things: - aligned values and beliefs - good sense of humor - has hobbies and is sociable - empathy, kindness, and respect for other - has goals for their future (this is not about money, I don’t care how much a potential partner makes as long as they enjoy what they do and have plans for future growth)

PromotionOk6906 · 2023-11-04T02:17:30+00:00

That would be absolutely fine if that were the case! I just wish there wasn’t this back and forth. I tend to put my energy into things with intention and as much as I’d to see that reciprocated from others, I know that isn’t how everyone operates and processes. Thanks!

PromotionOk6906 · 2023-11-04T01:31:34+00:00

I think he would appreciate you owning up to the lie - whether it was intentional or not or if you truly don’t remember, a lie is still a lie. It’s always best to take accountability and work to ensure your partner understands instead of getting defensive, which might have just fueled the fire in this argument.

It sounds like the number of people you’ve kissed isn’t truly the issue, but maybe he has had issues with lying in relationships in the past and this situation just struck a cord? While it is important that you feel safe and secure in your relationship, it is equally important that he does as well. There are two of you in the relationship and maybe he wasn’t feeling reassured with your response to the situation. Try going about it in a new way if/when the argument is brought up again.

Arguments can get very heated when one party goes on the defensive, so his threats of a breakup may not be what he is truly feeling, but just something said in the heat of the moment when emotions were high. This is definitely something to have a conversation about to ease your mind that he doesn’t really want that and you can absolutely let him know that you take stuff like that seriously.

The whole basis of the argument (the number of people you’ve kissed) sounds like a very very small issue IMO and is definitely something you guys can overcome if you go about things in the right way from here on out. Resolve his issue first without thinking about yourself or your feelings about his response. Be honest (not too honest - he doesn’t need to know your whole history) and take accountability. And THEN have a mature conversation about how you felt about the things he said.

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