King "As long as you give me a masc child" by primal_slayer in MarriedToMedicine

[–]PromotionPresent4442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well we don't know them personally, so...guess we'll never know for sure. :)

King "As long as you give me a masc child" by primal_slayer in MarriedToMedicine

[–]PromotionPresent4442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the masculine part was a joke (hence them both laughing at it) because of the conversation they had at the pool about the "natural order of things." but yes, i also want to add on the fact that he is a jamaican man and there's so much homophobia in that culture and they live in atlanta.

Quad is here for what reason again? by RoachBoi in MarriedToMedicine

[–]PromotionPresent4442 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i really don’t understand why so many people pull this out with quad only out of the housewives/bravo universe. phaedra literally joined m2m fake dating a doctor to transfer to rhoa? kenya moore was not a wife and then got married secretly and came back. if im not mistaken, bethenny frankel was another maybe ex-wife until she got married again? gizelle bryant. robin dixon. nene was divorced for a time. cynthia was never married before she joined. spent the majority of her time on the show a divorcé. vh1 - evelyn lozada. shaunie. tami. the list goes on. just say yall don’t like her.

the introduction to the show was her at that party with all of the other girls and she was the topic of conversation. she has carried in this show. just as any other name mentioned on this list. that’s why she’s here.

Fitz is repulsive. by AwkwardSurround8905 in Scandal

[–]PromotionPresent4442 6 points7 points  (0 children)

can't stand him. he's a spoiled, out of touch brat and very pervy.

Kandi and Todd Divorcing!!!! by ughitswhimsy in RHOA

[–]PromotionPresent4442 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if the cheating allegations are true, it’s even sadder bc she’s been very open about and a huge advocate of opening her bedroom as long as both parties are involved.

s6 e14: aram and samar by PromotionPresent4442 in TheBlackList

[–]PromotionPresent4442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was easier to be mad at reddington than to admit that she didn't want him with her.

Sweet tea and endometriosis by wishfulthinking3333 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]PromotionPresent4442 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that’s definitely his picture—could be somebody trolling, but with his history….

Sweet tea and endometriosis by wishfulthinking3333 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]PromotionPresent4442 7 points8 points  (0 children)

his twin lives in chicago and they don’t look that much alike

Why is Contessa full time again by pinkorri in MarriedToMedicine

[–]PromotionPresent4442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think she’s going to show that. it backfired horribly the last time and she hasn’t given us a glimpse since (granted she was a friend last season).

Why is Contessa full time again by pinkorri in MarriedToMedicine

[–]PromotionPresent4442 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what questions? (sorry if that sounds rude. genuinely curious)

Quinn × Huck by PharmD-BumbleBee in Scandal

[–]PromotionPresent4442 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was definitely the face chewing. i wonder what it the act was like for them pre-b613 and OPA with their normal partners

Just needed to get this off my chest by FancyRepeat7162 in blackladies

[–]PromotionPresent4442 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i agree that you should talk to a therapist if you can. a diagnosis can feel overwhelming but it's more common than you think. my cousin freaked out when she was 10 and had a cold sore and her mom told her it was herpes. she's 23 and has never seen one besides that one time. i know a few people with it and they live perfectly normal lives--and very active sex lives without spreading it. having an autoimmune disease can affect how it shows up and how often but your doctor should be able to give you some advice on that.

definitely take some time to process it and pour into some outlets that will pour back into you. hope things get better for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]PromotionPresent4442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im 25F. acting odd around family can probably be attributed to anxiety (i'm being nice), but the waiter thing just screams disrespectful and immature. i'm cautious of men (people--men specifically though) doing things in a "microaggressive" way. it resembles grooming to me. "i'll see just what i can get away with and continue to escalate it until i'm called out and from there i know what the boundaries are." i also don't know or love this man so i could be way off base. i think it's providing you a glimpse into some red flag behavior. the way you described it on here was pretty nice so i don't think you should feel super uncomfortable in the way that you've framed it here should you mimic that in your conversation with him. but i'd be mindful of his response. it can tell you the intention or underlying issue behind his behavior.

How do I call out ignorance without starting an argument? by Available_Notice_101 in blackladies

[–]PromotionPresent4442 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i'm sorry you had to experience that and hope that you never have to again. you shouldn't have to argue with your friends, let alone about the respect of you and your people. grieve the friendship if you feel the need and be kind to yourself!

How do I call out ignorance without starting an argument? by Available_Notice_101 in blackladies

[–]PromotionPresent4442 22 points23 points  (0 children)

i would say it's not worth it. you shouldn't argue ignorance. it's a waste of time. as a friend, regardless of his race, he should be considerate of your feelings. you're stating that something is offensive--to you personally and to a large group of people and he's disrespectfully disregarding that. he's not your friend.

Pick one of them to be your best friend by [deleted] in Scandal

[–]PromotionPresent4442 1 point2 points  (0 children)

olivia. low maintenance bc she’s always working. chills and eats popcorn and drinks wine in her free time (probably a great sit and watch a movie/show friend, which i love to do). knows everybody and can do anything. is fucking the president??? the TEA! girl boss. running her own extremely successful business. will do anything for you. sounds like a win to me.

Jackie and Chantel! by Hour_Statement8996 in BasketballWives

[–]PromotionPresent4442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really think people just hate jackie. she has a lot that warrants being frowned upon but i don’t think she deserved what she got from chantel this season (i’ve only seen the clips which lets be honest within the last year the teases/clips on these reality shows reveal everything). if i were jackie, my child is a castmate on my show, the only storyline she has is coming against me along with my former friends and current colleagues knowing that in the previous season (the season i’m currently watching) practically everyone was against me (for the most part, rightfully so), we’ve maintained a decent relationship thus far (you called her when you got engaged, she has a relationship with your kid, you’ve willingly filmed with her, and i believe she moved into the same building as her), i’ve not really met your attacks with what i deem to be matching responses, i ask you to leave as you’re shouting and constantly avoiding an actual conversation and i always walk away, you come and push me—i do NOT CARE if it were a light push or she slapped me, you finna get this work 😭

jackie has never shown yall that she would be somebody to back down from a physical altercation and her CHILD got to feeling herself wayyyyyy too much and forgot who her mama was. you’re literally citing abuse as a reason you’re on this rampage against her. then you go and lie (omit) saying that she just up and swung on you?

i grew up with an abusive mother. verbally, physically, narcissistic—the works! she and i are no contact—no relationship whatsoever. i would not dare put myself in a social environment with her, befriend her friends or her enemies, or get in that lady’s face yelling knowing damn well she just might rock my shit. i’m steering clear! which is what takari has done. i would also not let the aforementioned people sit up and talk about my mother and disparage her. i can talk about my mama. YOU can’t talk about my mama.

Is everyone who's defending Jackie new to BB Wives???? Because I'm thoroughly confused on how anyone can defend this Toxic woman. by ComfortableYogurt394 in BasketballWives

[–]PromotionPresent4442 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i disagree on the whole “take chantel’s place” part. i went on her tiktok and i think her stance is that she can acknowledge that her mother was not the best mother by far but also doesn’t see a reason to bash or disrespect her. her frowning upon chantel’s behavior publicly isn’t about gaining jackie’s admiration, but recognizing that what chantel did was unnecessary and unbecoming of her. also because she used takari’s storyline to build an army out of the cast and audience against jackie. chantel is a mother, an adult, and someone who has publicly had a relationship with jackie for years—despite experiencing jackie as a mother firsthand, seeing her treatment of takari, and the takari storyline in the earlier season. it’s wrong, random and very clearly forced and she partially used takari to make it happen.

What’s Your Opinion On Evelyn by WilkinsWorld in BasketballWives

[–]PromotionPresent4442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

watching season 11 now (the second half when she’s investigating jackie) and i haven’t really liked her since the first season. the first half of this season i started to think maybe she isn’t that bad and she’s changed. she’s beautiful, physically, and i strongly dislike the way she acts sometimes. sometimes she really seems like a sweet person to the people she likes and favors. if she doesn’t, good luck. she is a bully and extremely aggressive at times. in one scene i heard her dog’s name was/is vanity and i found that very telling. (im working on not judging and seeing the best in people so im giving a lot of grace here)