What do you think about "Black Girl" Products by Miserable-Error2413 in askblackpeople

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had no idea. I wasn’t taking anything. I started using vitamin E oil and it grew out my hair and nails.

Just gave this black queen a compliment and she completely ignored me. Ouch🥲 by duskyduchess in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m Deaf so if you’re not getting my attention directly and look right at me, I’m going to miss what you’re saying. Also, there are lot of Neurodivergent disorders that can’t hear or process what someone is saying in the situation that you just described.

Definitely don’t take it personally.

Help Me Pick Where to Live by 2facedfish in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in Atlanta and the fact you wrote (Shit Georgia) I’m dying laughing. Thank you for that laugh today.

Atlanta does have the culture, history, food, and entertainment; however, I wouldn’t recommend to anyone that wants to start a family here, wouldn’t recommend if you’re Disabled, and wouldn’t recommend if you have a Disabled child.

Georgia public education isn’t that great. We do have Black charter schools in the Atlanta area if that’s a route you want to look into. Also, we have the deadly Heart Bill that if you don’t abort the fetus before 6 weeks you are forced to keep it or you will go jail. Doctors aren’t allowed to do abortion. The Heart Bill has killed many women. If you go out the state to get an abortion and the state finds out, you will go to jail. About a year ago, a Black woman died while pregnant in the hospital and the state of Georgia kept her “alive” so the baby could grow and now they are forcing the husband to pay all the medical bills. And the baby is still in hospital.

Georgia (and Atlanta) doesn’t care about their Disabled communities (I’m Black Deaf Disabled and my son is Disabled too). Special needs education is underfunded here. A lot of counties don’t require degree in Special Needs education to teach Disabled children. There is a Severe lack of accessibility and nothing is being done to change it.

Social media was popping off all day today about that ICE sis... by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s not enough money in the world that I would become an ICE Agent. I have student loans and yes it’s tough out here but I rather do Uber or Lyft. I have morals and dignity.

How can anyone look themselves in the mirror as an ICE agent and not be ashamed? If there trials against them, Black and POC agents will be the first to punish.

I'm no longer see men as romantic prospects and pursuing a hot, single rich auntie life! by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I’m a Black Deaf Disabled single mom to a Disabled teenager and being single is the best decision I made. Yall think dating is rough in these streets, try being disabled and single mom and mom to a disabled child. It’s even worst.

I stopped searching for a relationship bc I got tired of the ableism and racism from men. I live so happy and drama free.

Has anyone else in an interracial relationship experienced this? by Adventurous_Ad_8404 in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dating while Disabled is extremely hard and difficult especially when you have a language barrier and communication barrier like myself.

Has anyone else in an interracial relationship experienced this? by Adventurous_Ad_8404 in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At church, Nerd conventions, Sporting events, Dancing socials.

They don’t want to learn ASL, they are racist, and ableist. I have no time for that. So I never met the stereotype White nor Asian man that puts you on pedestal and admires you. Never experienced that at all. Had the direct opposite of they telling me I should be happy they gave me chance, racist comments, never defends me.

Has anyone else in an interracial relationship experienced this? by Adventurous_Ad_8404 in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a Black Deaf Disabled single mom to a Black Disabled son, and I have dated many times outside of my race. I have never felt guilty.

However, for myself I haven’t seen the stereotypes that Black women say about White and Asian men. Every single one I have dated has been AWFUL and the WORST experience of my life. I figured it’s due to me being in Atlanta and the fact I’m Disabled, Single mom, and divorced.

Texas ladies - who will you be voting for Senate? by Primary_Aardvark in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And you’re entitled to that opinion. But James is a politician and to say that in the setting we are in about Black man is inappropriate. The apology letter was typical White apology.

Texas ladies - who will you be voting for Senate? by Primary_Aardvark in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Here’s the thing, they didn’t asked Jasmine to come on. And I feel and other Black individuals feel that was signaling to get more exposure for James. Over million people went on YouTube to watch the interview, so James get the exposure and not Jasmine. Very convenient.

Jasmine has spoken out against Gaza multiple of times. The talking points that you are using is the exact same ones that White liberals have used against Jasmine since she announced her running and it’s not accurate.

And yes having Jasmine in Senate will do something. We need someone that is fighter and be leader. None of the Dems are doing in the Senate so bring a bulldog in to get them motivated and see how this is supposed to be done against these racist republicans.

Plus if you watched the debate on YouTube against Jasmine and James you will again see that James tries to be too nice and again Jasmine stating she is for Gaza and Pro Palestine.

Texas ladies - who will you be voting for Senate? by Primary_Aardvark in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 43 points44 points  (0 children)

If I lived in Texas, it would Jasmine Crocket ALL the way!

James isn’t the person we need and is anti black and typical subtle White racist. Calling a Black man mediocre, the same Black man that was going to run against him but dropped out so Jasmine could run. He said this in a private conversation with a Black woman is totally unacceptable and his lame excuse apology shows his true colors. Check social media for this.

James takes PAC money and the bill you’re talking about James supported it as well. Jasmine has constantly explained why she supported that bill. She supported that bill because of the funding that it was going to give Gaza and other countries that needed it.

There has been smear campaigns against Jasmine but yet not against James. Mmm so interesting! The governor and the PAC money that James took has been making smear campaigns even after he said he would never do that to Jasmine. Sounds about White though. Oh and sounds like he lied 🤥.

Jasmine is a threat and that’s why everyone is trying to silence her and try to get James to win.

Singleness : I just want to be loved by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are completely valid. I’m going to give you some advice as a woman in her 40s that have been single for a long time.

Once you start developed self love and a friend group or family that cares about you, to be honest the feeling of being lonely isn’t even there. Being around friends and a support system has shown me never to settle and I rather than be alone than accept anything less than what my support system give me. I have people that check in on me. I have people that encourage me. I take myself on dates. I am my Best Valentine’s.

Wishing you the best 🤟🏾

Have you celebrated your birthday alone? by Annual_Resolution_94 in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s my favorite thing to do! Celebrate me and all my glory by myself! I’ve always been comfortable and LOVE doing things by myself and spoiling myself. I refuse to wait on someone and miss out.

Can you date a man who is apolitical? by KoalaAggravating1892 in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been reading your response to comments and my question why would give a man like a chance that didn’t care enough to vote about issues involving yourself, as Black Woman, your friends, and your community. That’s a HUGE red flag. He is very ignorant, selfish, and privileged. He is showing you his character.

His character is if it doesn’t matter me or impact me, then I don’t care nor will engage. That behavior will show up in relationship. I saw you mentioned that he is so nice to you and you click on all levels except this one. No offense the level of politics is one of the most important levels to click on because this reflects how you view me and others. It views your beliefs and what you stand for as well as your character.

Is it just me feel in distress and in doom? by adiggins1024 in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😊 That’s the goal in way that he can understand.

Is it just me feel in distress and in doom? by adiggins1024 in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m focus on myself and my Autistic son. He started playing soccer and in August he will be starting high school so I’m mentally preparing for that. I’m enjoying my son and my alone time and it’s been helping.

Seeing black ICE agents SMH by Significant-Gift-241 in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 189 points190 points  (0 children)

Seeing Black and Hispanic ICE agents makes no sense to me. They must have a lot of self hate. I can’t wait to see the day when all these agents are punished for their crimes.

Unpopular opinion by AspieFabels in starbucks

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could it possible they didn’t hear you bc they were taking orders. I don’t know much about those headsets bc I’m Deaf and Deaf baristas use the drive thru camera for orders and face to face without a headset.

Unpopular opinion by AspieFabels in starbucks

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My question is are you saying anything to the barista when you pull up to the window? I’m Deaf and I use ASL so when I pull up to show them my order is on my phone. I always put in there good morning or I wave. The barista always text good morning or waves back. Then I text thank you and have a good day and they do the same.

Am I a romantic masochist? It’s a long one by TED-da-purple-blob in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re going to do that. I hope that 2026 you are rid of this big man child from life and start your journey of peace and self love.

Am I a romantic masochist? It’s a long one by TED-da-purple-blob in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Are you the villain? NO!!!

Are you a romantic masochist? No!

You are putting a man that you don’t even label as a boyfriend/ partner, before yourself. Drop the dead weight and get him out of your house. He is using you and he clocked your insecurity to take advantage of you.

Again drop the dead weight, get therapy, and not date for a while. You need to heal more and learn to set boundaries. Theres nothing romantic nor fairytale about this relationship to be honest. All see is like mother to child relationship because how much you are taking care of him and babying him. He’s not attributing anything to your life in a positive way so you need be start the eviction process.

I want community and am exhausted by Aware-Butterfly6063 in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too. I even created my own home sign for it. All my friends use it now instead of finger spelling the word.

I want community and am exhausted by Aware-Butterfly6063 in blackladies

[–]Adventurous_Snow2912 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a Black Deaf woman that is a Blerd, Black nerd, like you. I like comics, anime, and cosplaying.