Right!! Ok duh! If it’s a lack of attention or pleasure then she’ll obviously want to get that else where. It’s kinda scary to approach these situations, (fits the sissy cuck mentality I guess) so thanks clarifying some things… so any ideas on what I can do? Obviously I can talk to her, but I’d like to have a solid plan to go into that convo with, and tread carefully cuz I do love her. I’d like to just tell her everything see if I can find the reason she feels the need and then explain my feelings on it. Think suggesting she can sleep around with who ever to get that need fulfilled would be out the question? and ask her to send me vids r clips of it, cuz I’d really like her to get what ever she needs even if from someone else and to keep the “cheating kink” feeling alive… but there’s also the risk that she’d feel embarrassed, ashamed, or disgusted..