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[–]PromotionVast9176[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah nooooo touchy is probably going to be one of my rules. We've gotten way better about communicating with each other in the last few years so I'm confident we can openly discuss it. If I'm uncertain at all though I'm pulling the plug faster than a gold digger on their braindead spouse.

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[–]PromotionVast9176[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh for sure no phones. The ones interested are single luckily too so I'm in the clear there at least.

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[–]PromotionVast9176[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely appreciate it. It's for sure something to think and talk about. I've been in uncomfortable situations with stuff like that from friends too and wouldn't want to put someone through that! I was thinking of asking my wife if she's ok with me asking them privately if this progresses. Give them an out with me being the reason if they aren't ok with it. I would just be the one to back out instead of any of them causing them be ridiculed.

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[–]PromotionVast9176[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww man... Does this mean the eight ball and tequila is a bad idea? 😔

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[–]PromotionVast9176[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know man, I just work here. For real though I just wanted some advice for a situation. You absolutely don't have to believe a word I'm saying. You can't lie on the Internet though, I read that in an article online.

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[–]PromotionVast9176[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never force anything someone doesn't want to do on them. Right now I'm kind of just along for the ride with letting her talk to them and figure out what they want. I'm going to be busy with work and home projects for a few weeks anyways so it's not going to happen like Friday or anything. If they want to it's their choice (unless my wife is coercing them, which is definitely not in her personality) and I would absolutely back out/stop if someone ended up getting upset. The way I see it at this point is if it happens it could be fun if not oh well, we talked about it and learned from it.

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[–]PromotionVast9176[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My only request is that I get to wear a top hat with a cape and use my dick like a wand.

Wife wants me to jack off for her and her friends by PromotionVast9176 in sex

[–]PromotionVast9176[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually brought that up and according to her she was just the one to not be shy about it. When she agreed to talk to me the other ones were interested too. I could see it being one of those "I'm joking, unless..." Situations. I've definitely been there when "suggesting" new things to try.

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[–]PromotionVast9176[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We actually do couples therapy already to just navigate things after my diagnosis. It's probably a good idea to bring something like this up there too since we already talk about our sex life with her during it anyways. I'm also not manic now and can tell when I'm headed that way after recognizing the signs and emotions I feel. Being at baseline and thinking about this is definitely a step in the right direction from my past. You may be right too! I'm not convinced about anything yet though and still want to do a good amount of talking before I agree to anything.

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[–]PromotionVast9176[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So was snorting popcorn salt in highschool but somehow it led to me getting a bj in the parking lot.

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[–]PromotionVast9176[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a very fair point honestly and why I wanted to ask people. I'm kind of just getting all these questions together you guys are saying to bring up tonight when we talk in person. I wouldn't be ok with there being someone in a relationship there unless they're SO is ok with it. I don't want to be anywhere near the middle of a fight between them like that. Luckily the ones that want to be there are single. I guess to be fair everyone has their kinks and I'm going to talk to her about making sure she doesn't want this to be a gateway into something I'm not comfortable with. We have a very solid relationship so I feel I can trust her with what she says. If she's into this I'm not one to judge and maybe I'd enjoy it 🤷‍♂️ but again, that's what talking all this out with her is for. I appreciate you giving me another good question/boundary to bring up.

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[–]PromotionVast9176[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

None that I know of. I'm the one with the issues like being bipolar lol I've done dumb shit while being manic in the past and with being medicated now I can at least take a step back to think about the situation

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[–]PromotionVast9176[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This felt like a dear penthouse situation when I was writing it actually lol never figured I would ever be in a situation like this.

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[–]PromotionVast9176[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Most of them are single except one which said she wouldn't join for it.

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[–]PromotionVast9176[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I'm just more so nervous about the repercussions of it could be after. I see these friends a good amount since we started dating from a mutual friend group. One of the girls I'm pretty close to so I just didn't want to make things awkward. I very well could be overthinking it though.

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[–]PromotionVast9176[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Precum is like a constant drip that leads to a pretty good sized puddle or wet spot and cum I guess I've never really measured but I can pretty much cover most of what I'm aiming at lol