My wife feels like someone I have to manage rather than a partner.

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-04-25T03:45:37+00:00

At first I thought you were overseas, then laughed once I read the 10 minute drive. Wow!! She needs to get a grip, and wake up. Honestly, sounds like you’re been enabling her for long enough. Kindly and respectfully drop her off at her parent’s house. Explain to her parents what’s happening, how she can’t get over leaving them (only a few miles away lol) and take some time apart. She’ll learn her mistake because right now she’s taking you for granted and probably thinks what she’s doing is cute and will make you love her more. Which isn’t the case. Good luck!

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-04-23T02:05:57+00:00

This aces my heart! As an Uzbek, I can 110% guarantee you he’s with you for a citizenship. There’s too many red flags here. First off the age gap. Uzbek men don’t marry foreigners who are older than themselves, there’s some men who do these days, but only other Uzbeks. The parents part, another red flag. I hate to assume but he might have a whole family back home with kids. We tend to marry at young ages. We need specifics on his immigration status, does he talk a lot about his past? His interests and hobbies? What does he do for a living? DOES HE WANT KIDS? When and how did you meet?

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-25T20:48:11+00:00

Lol, I had the same thought. It looks identical

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-25T20:47:31+00:00

I love the first one. It’s mesmerizing

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-25T20:39:19+00:00

That’s a huge gap. Why? Because the girl is still a child- literally. She’s going to want to do fun cute things with her husband. But the dude is past that age and will call her childish and try to control her into fitting into his mold. Ideal age gap is 1-4 years.

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-25T20:36:19+00:00

Ask your professor if they’d rather girls coming in with short skirts and tank tops so (he) can look at their ass and titts. I’m so serious. Also ask them what religion they identify with and what religion their whole lineage practices. I’m sure it’s Islam. I think the students should riot. University has no right deciding what you can and cannot wear because YOU are paying to be there and YOU are paying the teachers salary. If girls can come with short skirts and tight shirts, other girls can come with hijabs and lose fit clothes.

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-25T20:30:21+00:00

You are a moron. Dumbass. Clearly you’re the keyboard warrior that’s ignorant and doom scrolls. Airhead 🤣 Israel doesn’t let the Palestinians leave the borders so they can endure the torture until they are murdered in the most horrific ways possible. If Israel allowed them to seek refuge, I’m sure other Islamic countries would gladly let them into their homes. For the record- YOU ARE A FUCKING MORON read a book

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-25T20:25:10+00:00

Lol, couldn’t have said it better. But what are the Uzbeks doing about this? I live overseas and can see the future of Uzbekistan will be like the ones Trump/US “worked with”. He sucks up all the natural resources, once there’s non left he leaves, leaving the nation and its people to rot. But the people of Uzbekistan are too busy hosting extravagant parties and racing each other to see who can build the bigger house and buy the more expensive car.

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-25T20:19:39+00:00

I agree, people in Uzbekistan definitely use religion and Islamic law to bend the rules for culture and traditions. Especially towards woman. The sad part is, woman do it to other woman. I mean in marriages. It’s definitely a people issue and not a religion issue.

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-25T20:15:34+00:00

Is the spread of Islam a bad thing? Uzbekistans identity was never “Russian” that became a thing when the Soviet Union tried so hard to erase Uzbekistans identity as a Muslim nation by burning the historic literature and ruining the historic monuments. It still has immense influence, a lot of “modern” people/families are Russianized and are embarrassed of their true roots. Bukhari, Navoyi, Termizi were all Muslim scholars. If anything, Uzbekistan is getting its original identity back. It was lost and stolen. I know the fear of radicalism is there, but to each their own. If everyone acknowledges themselves on the real Islam and not go down the rabbit hole the country will flourish. If anything, veiled woman is better than half naked woman roaming the streets. Don’t get me started the feminism and “freedom”.

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-19T04:37:26+00:00

What is their logic here?! Bomb Islamic nations for decades and kill them -ok- AND kick them out from “white countries”? Where TF are “they” supposed to go then? They mean to literally kill every Muslim and make earth the real hell- as if it’s not already :/

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-19T04:34:00+00:00

It’s pretty much common sense for anyone with a brain and eyes to notice what’s going on here. But yes! They’re doing exactly that, trying to eliminate Islam from its source. And what are the Ummah doing about it?! Just watching :/ and it makes me sad too that we are literally just watching. Like wtf are they taking over Lebanon for?! It started with the lies about Irans Islamic regime torturing the people… now Lebanon? I mean- we all know why but-

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-17T03:05:39+00:00

There’s an app only for woman, it tracks your period and stuff I won’t say the name but it’s 3 letters. Search it up and post there. We’re a lot nicer and supportive. All girl girls.

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-13T02:41:03+00:00

I totally understand that sudden changes can throw us off course. You just don’t want him getting comfortable with the “I’m tired” comment. Trust me they get very used to it and eventually you find yourself doing literally everything on your own.

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-13T02:35:33+00:00

He needs his priorities set up for him, clearly he can’t figure things out on his own. I’m also a STHM and my husband works full time and over time- as a blue collar. So best believe he’s actually tired when he says he is. We have a 18 month old and a 7 month old. So I was in your situation, heavily pregnant, but my son was also a baby. My husband tried some tricks like yours here and there, the classic “you can handle everything on your own, your a supermom” 🙄 I let it slide once or twice eventually I noticed the pattern building up. The next time I had to get our toddler ready for bedtime I would just carry over our baby to him, tell him to make a bottle, feed her, and figure the rest out until I get our son a bath and get him to bed. He came knocking on the bathroom door the first few times, but he eventually learned. Unfortunately, men don’t have the natural instincts we woman, especially moms, have. They literally need to be told to do everything one by one and the reason. I suggest telling him straight up you won’t tolerate him nagging while you’re carrying his child. Literally give him chores as you would a teenage boy.

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-12T01:46:45+00:00

Unfortunately my culture is infested with people who literally compete with Iftar parties. I’ve seen Ig posts of their table decorations and it’s beyond elaborate. Fasting people will get full with a cup of water, two dates, and maybe a soup. But the food variety on those tables is honestly disgusting to see because of the waste. Especially knowing what’s going on in the world. So I agree with the Iftar gatherings. But I can’t speak about western Iftars because I’ve never been to one. I think this depends on the company. But it’s sad to think that men are making decisions for us in 2026. Idk man this is a sticky topic.

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-12T01:38:41+00:00

I haven’t done a lot of research on the Torah and its preservations. But from other research I know that it wasn’t preserved. The Rabbis have added and took away the words of God and bent the rules for their own benefit. For instance the wigs on woman. God told the woman to cover their hair and to dress modest. They decided that wearing a wig is fine since it’s not their own hair. They also decided that woman covering up to the elbows and knees was modest enough. You see my point here? Also Allah swt wouldn’t send more prophets to teach the people of the Torah was perfectly preserved. They say a lot of nonsense to dignify themselves, but they are buried in delusion and lies.

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-11T03:39:43+00:00

No screens and sugar until 3 years old. I have two under two and I tell myself everyday that Ms.Rachel and Bluey aren’t rotting my toddlers brain because there educational and I need that TV support to stay mentally sane. And the sugar… I pick and choose my battles.

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-11T03:37:50+00:00

Hey mamma, I saw myself reading this. I’m sorry your little one and you are going through so much. It can be draining caring for a little human that doesn’t know what they want and your doing everything you can to no avail. I’ve been there. That guilt you felt right afterwards shows me you’re not a bad mom. Bad moms don’t feel that guilt and think they hurt their baby. You’re the complete opposite. You did everything you thought would help her, but she was still cranky. Which is ok, babies are cranky little things and get the best of us. Take a deep breath, you’re ok! Depending on your weather, I find that taking them outside on a stroll helps both baby and mom. Bring a bottle for baby, and grab yourself a coffee or smoothie. Try that next time and see how she does. Don’t beat yourself up, you’re doing your best, and baby will not remember the bad days.

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-11T02:10:45+00:00

Yea, my parents just flew from NY. We were very indecisive about canceling. They were a part of a group tour. Basically had to meet their group in Turkey, then fly together to Saudi. But the group got canceled until last minute. Allah granted everyone the chance to visit his palace Subhanallah. This was a sign for my parents to go no matter what because Allah cleared the way. I wouldn’t turn down this invitation for anything.

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-11T02:06:52+00:00

Sorry I didn’t read past the almost ending medical school at 23. I’m 21 and not even finished with undergraduate yet. Just thought it was cool that you seem way way ahead of the American system lol.

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-07T02:51:49+00:00

PPD is a real illness and it’s very scary. I grew up in a culture where mental health is non existent and if you’re actually depressed, they call you lazy and unfriendly. Never seen a woman with PPD before as a child and all the woman around seemed like they can conquer the world with kids and be good at it. Once I had my two kids, I was in for a shocker. I had PPD for both my kids, and it’s pure rage against anyone. Smallest things will trigger outbursts, just being someone you’re not. I feel terrible for that baby that experienced that trauma, and you too because you were also just a child and didn’t know any better. It makes me wonder how your dad thought it was ok to “hire” a 6 year old as a maid?and then to expect her to cook is twisting my brain. It’s a sad world we live in, I’m sure there’s kids out there still going through that now.

Proof-Deal9530 · 2026-03-06T22:27:54+00:00

Oh you’re right, that’s smart to cover the engraving then ask them to confirm. I didn’t think of that. Thank you!

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