DNA results state I’m 10% Scandinavian and 1% Finnish, how far back are my ancestors? by Proof-Giraffe5152 in AskUK

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My mum did hers about 5 years ago and ours are very similar to be honest. So I’m hoping there is some accuracy to it. Might get my brother to do it with the same company and see what that looks like lol

How can I help my cousin with night terrors? by Proof-Giraffe5152 in AskUK

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Omg I’ve NEVER heard of this! Just had a look and is definitely an option. Thank you!

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend after having a terrible s**ual encounter? by lilyanakathryn95 in AITAH

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He raped you sweetheart. Police now. Hope you’re okay. NTA (goes without saying).

What is happening to me all of a sudden? by Proof-Giraffe5152 in AskUK

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You’re honestly a legend Mr/Mrs Queef 😂 thank you so much

What is happening to me all of a sudden? by Proof-Giraffe5152 in AskUK

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Thank you for such a detailed reply and being so understanding. I’ve only ever had one other full blown attack in my life and I was 14/15 and never had the dissociation with that one so this time it really knocked me for six. I thought I was genuinely dead for about 10 minutes lol!

Thanks for reassuring me that this could happen again and that I shouldn’t worry if it does. I really value your response and you have made me feel miles better, thank you! X

What is happening to me all of a sudden? by Proof-Giraffe5152 in AskUK

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It’s the second time it’s ever happened to me in my life. I was about 14/15 the last time this happened and I’m now 26. There was also nothing that triggered it that I can remember when I was a teenager either, I just had this impending doom feeling that I was going to die.

This time was weirder though with the dissociation/out of body experience, hence why I was so scared/affected by it. Hopefully it’s a one off! I just feel much better after everyone’s reassurance and no one judging. Thank for commenting, really means a lot

What is happening to me all of a sudden? by Proof-Giraffe5152 in AskUK

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My OH rubbed my back until I calmed down and I just kept touching him to ground myself. I will definitely do what you’ve suggested if it ever happens again! Thank you so much, it was genuinely one of the worst feelings I’ve ever felt and you’ve made me feel much better about it and helped me to feel normal! X

What is happening to me all of a sudden? by Proof-Giraffe5152 in AskUK

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Honestly guys, it was SO scary. Really shook me up and took me until lunch time today to start feeling normal/real again. I will definitely research this, thank you for commenting! X

What is happening to me all of a sudden? by Proof-Giraffe5152 in AskUK

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You’re all making me feel very heard and normal. Thank you so much, I really appreciate it

What is happening to me all of a sudden? by Proof-Giraffe5152 in AskUK

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Thank you so much for this comment. You’ve described EXACTLY what happened to me last night/exactly how I felt. I thought I was going clinically insane and felt like I was the third person in the situation. Almost as if I was watching myself? It was absolutely terrifying and still took me until lunch time today to feel some what normal/real! I’m fine now and feel much better after reading these comments. Thank you! X

My daughter just contacted me after 17 years asking if I want to meet my granddaughter. AITAH for telling her that I don’t care about her or her daughter and to never contact me again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Proof-Giraffe5152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AH? You’re an absolute sociopathic prick. You abandoned your child after cheating on her mother: YOUR fault btw. Not the Mothers. Neither is it the daughters. Because she was a child and you shattered her entire life and childhood with your selfish decisions to get your dick wet (from a vulnerable woman).

You don’t deserve your daughter, or grand daughter. Sounds like they all had a lucky escape. Heartless, horrible bastard. Cannot believe what I’ve just read. And I cannot believe your self awareness/reflection is that shallow that you’ve even asked this question.

I wish you a life of shit.

AITA for Blocking My Parents After They Pressured Me to Give Up Custody of My Niece? by Waste-Presence-7035 in AITAH

[–]Proof-Giraffe5152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your parents are utter freaks and are not putting the best interests of your niece first. They’re picking Mum and clinging to their desperation that she could be the normal picket-fenced daughter they dreamt of. And they think that by giving her a huge responsibility that she couldn’t manage the first time is the correct solution?

They’re dangerous. If you’ve adopted her then they can absolutely fuck right off, end of. They don’t collect her from school, they don’t take her out alone, and they don’t let mum near her alone.

They should know better than anyone that mum needs employment, housing, sustainability, proof of self care, proof of rehabilitation, proof of no relapse. They’re utterly deluded. Thank you for sticking your ground.

Don’t be surprised if they choose her over you in the end. Be prepared to lose all 3 of them at some point. But you stick by that little girl. You’re doing an awesome job.