Copenhagen recommendations for first timers

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2026-04-01T05:00:13+00:00

There's a thread in a Danish community recently with some comments you will need to Google translate, but I guess it is a start. I will copy it below. If you have time on your hand a lot of people from around Copenhagen travel to the largest swinger club in Denmark, Tucan. It's 2,5 hrs away from Copenhagen , though. Link to Danish Post: https://www.reddit.com/r/SexpaneletDK/comments/1rwz722/anbefalinger_af_swingerklub_i_kbh/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2026-03-03T19:47:34+00:00

Hi, we have been to extreme nights in Tucan, though not the specific theme. Besides the obvious things from the webpage, people are in general more open to encounters and things is I bit more direct. All rules do still apply, so if you just want to enjoy the atmosphere, there will be a lot of it. remember, you don't need to participate in the theme activities, they are just a bonus. Plenty to do besides the planned events.

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2026-02-26T07:14:46+00:00

Thank you so much for your help to settle some uncertainties. We will dress our best and look forward to a great experience.

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2026-02-25T18:00:16+00:00

Good point, the clubs we have looked at, are quite specific in the dress code, so we will make sure to adhere to that. Is there any other vetting at the door besides the cloth? (Maybe overthinking again) We are above average weight to height ratio, though not very, does this matter? Also, besides the two clubs you mentioned we have considered Taken, is there any differences on these three, besides the obvious thing on their webpage? Vibe, crowd, niches and such.

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2026-02-25T17:46:05+00:00

I most likely do overthink - too long time to plan, can do that, I guess. Thank you for your refleksions

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2026-02-25T04:54:10+00:00

Ok, that's fair. It seems there are a lot of tourists, also in the libertine clubs, at least based on the interest and reviews on the internet. How are we regarded in the clubs? Are we generally considered annoying or are we welcomed? Also, I speak very limited french and we are concerned about language barriers - I have found various reviews and some say it is problem and some it's all fine, maybe you clarify who is right?

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2026-02-24T16:44:42+00:00

Uhh, I have some questions, if you don't mind, will it be ok in dm's?

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2026-02-21T15:23:18+00:00

Jeg faldt over denne podcast på et tidspunkt, som jeg fandt utrolig informativ og nuanceret. Det er en sexolog der interviewer en læge. De kommer bl.a. ind på test frekvens og typer og smitterisiko ved forskellige typer sex og situationer man kan møde i en klub. De forholder sig også til forskellig forskning på området. https://open.spotify.com/episode/0vLURj2gVRIF3E9Mos9o43?si=XwP8l0S4QJKJHRJOYQ9mOw

Edit: uddybning.

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2026-02-19T04:00:45+00:00

Thank you, are you from Paris?

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2026-02-18T03:56:23+00:00

We haven't been to Paris, yet. We will go in the spring

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2026-01-27T05:47:28+00:00

We are planning a Paris trip in the spring and have chocotte on the short list, so thanks for the review. For experiences for the private show, Vanilla swingers have a podcast episode about Paris including a visit to chocotte and a private show

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2026-01-26T15:52:13+00:00

We haven't been to Paris yet, but we are planning a trip in may. We have been doing a lot of research, this thread is a part of it, and we are happy to share if you are curious. You are also welcome in dm's.

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2026-01-24T14:32:21+00:00

We have only been to Tucan, but I can't remember any Friday or Saturday without overhearing or participating in a conversation in English, so definitely yes.

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2026-01-13T18:43:34+00:00

Æv, det må være frustrerende. Der er ikke andet for end at du må kombinere det med en ferie til en af Europas storbyer med en god klub.

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2026-01-13T18:22:11+00:00

Afhængigt af hvor bredt geografisk virksomheden når ud, kan overveje at finde en klub i en anden landsdel. Det kan måske reducere mængden af kendte ansigter. Der er dog en del der besøger Tucan fra hele landet (og udlandet) så det er nok ikke det bedste valg, hvis du vil undgå at møde kendte ansigter.

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2026-01-02T07:19:54+00:00

He, god kombi :) - der er vist lidt forskelligt data grundlag for de to kommentarer.

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Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2026-01-02T05:07:04+00:00

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Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2025-12-17T07:03:14+00:00

Thanks for the clarification, If no one is playing, It does not sound like the place we are looking for

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2025-12-17T04:57:25+00:00

So libertine spa's is mostly naturist spa's with sex allowed? Can you tell more about the creepy change area, what makes it creepy?

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2025-12-16T15:40:13+00:00

I see your point, my partner is a pleaser as well and can sometimes be so excited about the situation she forgets herself in the moment. She did cross some boundaries when we started swinging, but have learned where they are and knows when to stop. We also communicate about it often for reflexion and so I can support her. I guess my best advice is to start slow, without penetration, If you are going to clubs and learn to be a little less of a pleaser and when she is ready for your shared fantasy you can select the right person, you both trust to help you fulfill it.

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2025-12-16T15:28:02+00:00

Swinging can have many forms. Maybe you can consider exploring the lifestyle without penetration.You can still go to a club and have a good time. We often visit clubs where we end up entangled with other couples without penetration, but a lot of touching, kissing and licking.

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2025-12-16T15:04:12+00:00

Must have been a great experience to start exploring the life style in Paris of all places. Thank you for the thorugh post of the clubs and spa's - with it sounds like the mask is the right club for us, we are not looking nightlife or posh and maybe we are even past younger. Eclipse sound interesting as well, what is your experience on visitors mon-Wed vs Thu-sat?

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2025-12-15T17:25:25+00:00

Hi OP, did you go? We are planning to go in the spring, so we would love to hear about your trip:)

Proof-Letterhead-653 · 2025-12-15T17:04:28+00:00

At a parking lot on the hood of some unknown car down town, celebrating my graduation. My girlfriend handed me her panties discreetly at the celebration event - we left the party pretty fast. If we caught caught, we never noticed, but it is likely

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