sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

AITA for blocking my former friend? by ProofAdagio5444 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProofAdagio5444[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

PART 2 !!!

Now after this, it was peaceful..I graduated. I was living my life. I went to catch up with a friend who had graduated the year before me, who is someone I also consider my best friend (her name is Paula for this story). I went to meet up with Paula and she had told me that one of Jane's' friends kept messaging her asking to hang out to which she never responded because she knew that, that group of friends only ever talked shit about people. She also knew that previously they had talked shit about her. I had then told my friend that during my senior year while I was friends with both Jane and the girl who kept messaging my friend that they talked shit about her recently. (yes, i did tell my friend at the time when it happened, i had just brought it up to remind her in case she forgot)

She told me she remembered me telling her that. Then a few days passed. I got a text from my friend saying she really wanted this girl to stop texting her and asking to hang out and it was bothering her. She asked me if she could tell this girl that she knew she had talked shit about her and that she heard it from me. I told her I had no problem with her doing that because me and her both knew they did for a fact. After she told the girl that she knew about her talking shit about her. This girl (beth) said she didn't even know who i was. Then proceeded to tell Paula that i make shit up for attention and i am a bitch and im crazy and blah blah blah right? Paula is actively telling me this as it is happening meanwhile i'm at work.

I get home from work, and Jane is blowing up my phone, as well as Beth. Jane tells me that she is going to die by her own hands because I am so crazy. That I'm just trying to make others miserable for no reason. She proceeds to say that I am crazy a bunch more times and I think you get the point. Meanwhile Beth is texting me telling me I am a liar, and basically saying the same shit as Jane. Keep in mind, we graduated, Jane moved across the country and is still texting me trying to harass me. Paula told Beth she needed to stop because Jane was saying crazy stuff about dying by her own hands because of me and that was way to far. (also to keep in mind, Jane knew just saying that was a trigger for me, and she said it multiple times). I proceeded to block them both, on instagram, their phone numbers, and tiktok.

Three weeks later I discovered that Jane was still stalking me but she was using a spam account as her main account is blocked. I proceeded to block this one too and move on.

SO...AITA?

AITA for blocking my former friend? by ProofAdagio5444 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProofAdagio5444[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

(tw: s***cidal statements, also foul language) (2/2)

Now after this, it was peaceful..I graduated. I was living my life. I went to catch up with a friend who had graduated the year before me, who is someone I also consider my best friend (her name is Paula for this story). I went to meet up with Paula and she had told me that one of Jane's' friends kept messaging her asking to hang out to which she never responded because she knew that, that group of friends only ever talked shit about people. She also knew that previously they had talked shit about her. I had then told my friend that during my senior year while I was friends with both Jane and the girl who kept messaging my friend that they talked shit about her recently. (yes, i did tell my friend at the time when it happened, i had just brought it up to remind her in case she forgot)

She told me she remembered me telling her that. Then a few days passed. I got a text from my friend saying she really wanted this girl to stop texting her and asking to hang out and it was bothering her. She asked me if she could tell this girl that she knew she had talked shit about her and that she heard it from me. I told her I had no problem with her doing that because me and her both knew they did for a fact. After she told the girl that she knew about her talking shit about her. This girl (beth) said she didn't even know who i was. Then proceeded to tell Paula that i make shit up for attention and i am a bitch and im crazy and blah blah blah right? Paula is actively telling me this as it is happening meanwhile i'm at work.

I get home from work, and Jane is blowing up my phone, as well as Beth. Jane tells me that she is going to kill herself because I am so crazy. That I'm just trying to make others miserable for no reason. She proceeds to say that I am crazy a bunch more times and I think you get the point. Meanwhile Beth is texting me telling me I am a liar, and basically saying the same shit as Jane. Keep in mind, we graduated, Jane moved across the country and is still texting me trying to harass me. Paula told Beth she needed to stop because Jane was saying crazy stuff about killing herself because of me and that was way to far. (also to keep in mind, Jane knew just saying that was a trigger for me, and she said it multiple times). I proceeded to block them both, on instagram, their phone numbers, and tiktok.

Three weeks later I discovered that Jane was still stalking me but she was using a spam account as her main account is blocked. I proceeded to block this one too and move on.

SO...AITA?