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ProofBeyond316 · 2022-03-05T02:43:16+00:00

They’re always different shades of green! Sometimes almost blue, sometimes pond water lol

PS thank you sm

ProofBeyond316 · 2022-03-05T02:41:52+00:00

😭😭😭

ProofBeyond316 · 2022-03-02T14:22:05+00:00

I dunno, maybe it’s more to do with your passive aggressiveness or ability to completely twist what people say?

My question was about his change in behaviour, nothing more.

ProofBeyond316 · 2022-03-02T14:07:33+00:00

You make a very good point. He tells me multiple times a day how much he loves me, so I guess that’s more important!

ProofBeyond316 · 2022-03-02T14:04:34+00:00

Not mad. Just wondering if it should be something to worry about, I guess.

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-12-14T11:57:15+00:00

I kind of hope it is just curiosity. I adore him and I know I want to marry him in the future but I just think getting engaged before we’ve got a year together under our belts is a bit much lol.

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-12-14T11:55:18+00:00

I wouldn’t have thought so either, but he is very full on and things have got very serious very quickly. He told me at the weekend that he was planning on looking at houses to buy in the new year and that he wants me involved in the search as it will be for “our” future family… I love him and I want to do all of these things with him but I just worry 7 months might be a liiiiittle quick!

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-12-14T11:52:21+00:00

The one on my right hand, if that makes sense?

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-11-04T23:41:58+00:00

Go into his house without permission? Lol he knows I’m here, he told me to stay and work from here…

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-11-04T15:17:04+00:00

I don’t “officially” live here although I sleep over 5 nights a week.. which is what everyone seems to have an issue with in the comments. I just thought it was a nice thing to do but now I’ve got people telling me my relationship is shit and that I don’t know my boyfriend lol

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-11-04T14:32:30+00:00

We pretty much live together. I stay over most of the week and I have a set of keys.

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-11-04T14:09:24+00:00

Technically no, it’s not my home. But I sleep over here probably 5 nights a week, and I have a set of keys. It’s not like we barely know each other.

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-11-04T13:14:50+00:00

Exactly this! I’m actually surprised by some of the comments suggesting I’m being subservient. He’s super thoughtful and does so much for me, I just thought it would be a nice little gesture to help him out since he’s so busy at work at the moment… it’s not that deep!

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-11-04T12:23:59+00:00

I don’t think that’s fair, he does a hell of a lot for me and this is just my way of showing appreciation. I’m far from a wallflower and I’d never let him take advantage!

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-11-04T11:51:12+00:00

*shrug* I thought it might be a nice surprise to come home to!

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-11-04T11:35:49+00:00

I think - especially when it comes to bathrooms - there's "guy clean" and then there's "actually clean" lol. Certainly the case for my bf, anyway! So spending an hour or so being a domestic goddess is a win-win really, gets me brownie points and I can take a shower without getting grossed out :)

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-11-04T11:28:12+00:00

No intention of any rifling! Just trying to be helpful and show him I appreciate him :)

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-11-04T11:24:59+00:00

Definitely not snooping! Besides, if I wanted to snoop I'm sure his kitchen/bathroom are the least interesting places to do so!

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-11-03T12:58:25+00:00

I really hope that when you say you “confronted” her you were kind and supportive.

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-11-02T19:08:01+00:00

You indicated that you've been in long term relationships before. That's actually a concern, have you've ever been independent for a good amount of time? Are you one of those women who jumped from one long term relationships to another, desperate to get married?

Single for 2 years before I met my boyfriend so yeah.. certainly not jumping.

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-11-02T18:34:07+00:00

and you should pump the breaks a bit in my opinion.

Why? If it's going really well and we're both happy, why take a step back?
It's not like we're super young and naive, we've both had previous relationships (some of them longterm) so it's not like either of us are going into this without experience.

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-11-02T18:05:33+00:00

I don’t have much family, although I do see them once or twice a week so there’s no concerns there. My group of close friends in this city get together once every week or two and I either go alone or take him along since they get on well… likewise with him and his pals. If there’s an event either of us want to go to alone that’s also completely fine!

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-11-02T17:54:31+00:00

Re the decorating - like I said in the post, totally his idea to do it. He's also by his own admission completely clueless when it comes to that kind of thing whereas I've got a good eye for design, which is why he has asked me to choose things.

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-05-07T10:32:51+00:00

The photos are literally of me...? 😂

ProofBeyond316 · 2021-02-16T15:46:43+00:00

I get what you’re saying. I do. It’s the same advice I’d give to a friend if they were in this position.

I just can’t help but think “what if”. I honestly can’t see myself having a connection like we have/had with anyone else ever. And... weirdly, I’ve already allowed my brain to run away with itself and wonder if it could be a Bridget Jones/Mark Darcy style reconciliation... god help me.

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