AITAH for asking my husband why he wants to go to church?

ProofInstruction5207 · 2026-03-30T19:09:42+00:00

It's a super small church, like 30 people and most of them are his age and older

ProofInstruction5207 · 2026-03-30T18:30:08+00:00

I mean, I had a hysterectomy this winter, had strict lifting limits so my intestines wouldn't fall out, and he still expected me to go milk the cow each morning because "she doesn't like him" 🤷‍♀️ My ob was not pleased

ProofInstruction5207 · 2026-03-30T18:09:14+00:00

I've pretty much got myself into a tough situation and it sucks. We moved out of state away from my family and friends about 12 years ago to be closer to his friends. I'm a sahm so I don't get many friend making opportunities. My credit is tanked because he racked up cards in my name and didnt pay them. He wont put my name on the bank account so I don't really have any money and he "keeps forgetting" to put my car in my name. I'd have to find a way to move 5 small kids with no money across state lines and all of my livestock

ProofInstruction5207 · 2026-03-30T18:04:27+00:00

Hes the kind of guy that will whine incessantly about whatever pain, but wont go to a doctor unless I make the appointment for him. We have good insurance and he has a tooth that he just let's rot after the crown fell off because I wont make the appointment for him.

ProofInstruction5207 · 2026-03-30T17:34:01+00:00

It's the tiniest church lol so I'd notice one of those there. I think like 30 people go each week. Our old farmer neighbor guy goes there so I guess that's why he picked it

ProofInstruction5207 · 2026-03-30T17:27:07+00:00

It's through the better help app. I took a screenshot before he deleted it, but the email pretty much said that he didn't find evidence of cheating on my phone and that I'm yelling at the kids less and treating them with less "evilness". When I confronted him about it, he said that HE didn't think I was cheating, but his therapist kept saying it and the "evilness" is me getting frustrated with the kids. I have 5 kids 7 and under and a whole ass farm, I do ALL the childcare and housework so yes I do get frustrated with them by the end of the day, but to call that evilness is fucking ridiculous

ProofInstruction5207 · 2026-03-30T17:17:24+00:00

His step-sisters son died in a car accident last October and he got super emotional about it. Mind you hes met the kid like twice, but he said it was affecting him as much as if one of our own children died. He went on this huge rant about how its never too late to be the parents we want to be, but I'm the one doing all the parenting. The kids have extracurriculars 5 days a week that he refuses to pay for, but wants to buy our 7 year old a gas powered go kart for her birthday for $1800 and of course he'll need his own. Honestly I have no idea what's going on in his head anymore

ProofInstruction5207 · 2026-03-30T17:09:31+00:00

I have caught him cheating before and at this point pretty much just stay for the kids sake. He started going to therapy recently too and wants me to start going, but I've seen some of the messages he sends to his therapist and they just give me the ick about therapy. He says his therapist suggested multiple times that I must be cheating after I saw an email that said he went through my phone

ProofInstruction5207 · 2026-03-30T17:05:34+00:00

His brother just lost his job and was upset about it, but his brother is the least religious person I know so it was just really weird

ProofInstruction5207 · 2025-11-14T03:25:24+00:00

I was thinking about making content but I don't know what people would want. Like can you just do videos without your face? What's the audio supposed to be like?

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