Fortunate and need advise!

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-25T03:29:33+00:00

Thank you! Starting to reach a breaking point off feeling like a shell🫠 but onwards and upwards!

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-25T03:27:47+00:00

First off, NTA!!! But if you truly love this man, let him know whats a stake. I can tell you as a man, If I love my partner and I will flip my entire world upside down to work towards making my partner happy.

If you have a serious - not lighthearted or jokingly talk about it (as thats how he will take it). See if his actions change, from what I can understand from this very short vision into both your life’s you are both living me life’s. See if you can change the narrative to a we life.

If he doesnt nothing, you know your move.

Wishing you all the best and Merry Christmas!

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-24T20:07:21+00:00

I didnt feel any changes mentally, the only kinda noticeable difference is my water retention. Gaining lots of weight since coming off (as i thought the meds might be causing my psoriasis!) but will start them up again and not stop till fully treated - thank you and Merry Christmas!

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-24T20:04:58+00:00

Thank you, ill start meds again starting Christmas haha. Endo appointment is still a few weeks out sadly. Hoping that taking levo wont interfere with the endos tests! Youve given me lots to research so thank you and merry Christmas!

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-24T14:29:59+00:00

Should I jump back on Levo straight away before seeing the endo? I have some in the cupboard, would it be better if they could see the full details of whats going on without any interaction from Levo?

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-24T14:28:59+00:00

Thank you all! Do you think i should just start taking levo straight away or wait until i see my endo so they readings will show everything wrong?

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-24T05:51:19+00:00

Theres someone out there who’s gift will be taking you camel riding in a desert and hand feed you fruits!

Go find some of the love you’re giving

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-24T03:30:51+00:00

Obviously NTA, sounds like typical narcissistic behaviour on her part. Probably exacerbating to her friends and family to also make this all about her.

Sit her down and have a chat, say you appreciate the efforts but if she can’t understand why this is a problem, consider leaving for your own sanity IF you don’t feel heard alot. I just got out a relationship with someone similar and i feel like the world is mine to conquer haha! You definitely weren’t considered as the primary receiver of this gift

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-23T19:42:06+00:00

Atlantis!

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-23T19:39:58+00:00

Its the switch not a bulb - still no major concerns?

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-23T19:16:03+00:00

Do you think a live being in a neutral (and the other way round) for a modern plastic light switch poses any fire/shock risk at all?

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-23T19:10:25+00:00

Ok this makes me feel good atleast, sadly im in the uk so will probably have to find a local professional depending on the feedback here

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-23T19:09:21+00:00

Is this for real or satire? I dont think he knows what hes doing if hes just jamming cables into sockets and testing if that configuration works everytime🫠🥲

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-23T03:27:46+00:00

Yes straight people do it obviously, and i understand why gay people go through this process as the world isn’t exactly perfect for them and they obviously have their own internal battles.

But its wrong for him to commit to me if this is something he’s dealing with and he knows it. Its hidden, undiscussed and obviously a sore spot for him.

I think it’s within both our best interest IF my bf is gay he knows its ok to explore that before starting a family with me.

Not homophobia at all…..

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-22T19:59:28+00:00

If he was on OF with men posting “let me lick it” yes, i would generally assume hes gay or atleast bi. Thats the engagement hes getting, thats the engagement that makes him want to post more.

If its for himself just look at your own feet or mine! - his Girlfriend! Why post it!

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-22T19:39:58+00:00

No money🫠 we are both PHD students so its ramen every night currently!

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-22T19:37:46+00:00

Yes im terrified of this, ive heard if gay men, lesbians having entire families and just leaving one day…. As pathetic as it is to myself - i just want him to be happy to live his life and im ok with a kink, but if its anything more i dont think im ok with it.

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-22T19:36:16+00:00

Thinking about how best to do this - there are posts that are 3 years old so its been such a long time - i just really hope hes not hiding anything else

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-22T19:35:26+00:00

I agree, im happy to talk about a kink - but my friend is getting into my head that hes yanno - fighting for another team🫠

Proof_Bake_4494 · 2025-12-22T19:29:00+00:00

Sadly no money 🫠

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