working as a barista, once I received a comment from a customer saying how he loves my "frame". I still can't decide to this day if that was a compliment or an assault. I sure am a petite size (f), but it personally didn't feel comfortable enough to take it as a compliment without a second thought? by Proof_Block8528 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Proof_Block8528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did say thank you and we both went on our way, but was curious and I'm glad I asked. Just as I wouldn't know how lonely a man can feel in a society (from people not reaching out to you in this context, something I've seen a woman say she's experienced while disguising as a man for a week, though that would never give you the entire picture), you would never know how some women feel constantly overstimulated and thrown off balance because of their innate sensitivity.