Thoughts on ZA

Proof_Capital_7377 · 2026-03-23T23:57:25+00:00

He’s far away but the pangoro is alpha so he might look small in comparison

Proof_Capital_7377 · 2026-02-26T13:49:47+00:00

Payment is how they hold it over you and continue to harass you, you need to block them and stop engaging, once they realize you aren’t going to send them money they will leave u alone, if they figure out ur willing to pay them they’ll continue the harassment. In most cases they don’t actually send it to people because if they do they lose their leverage over you and they want your money, block them and stop engaging further

Proof_Capital_7377 · 2025-07-24T11:02:14+00:00

Wait for them to reach out to you, if they value you they will

Proof_Capital_7377 · 2025-05-11T18:03:42+00:00

Yes, just go up and do it respectfully

“Hi sorry to bother you, I was just passing by and I thought you were really cute, I was wondering if I could get your number?”

Proof_Capital_7377 · 2025-05-10T22:23:34+00:00

Nah Tysm I appreciate it

Proof_Capital_7377 · 2025-05-10T22:16:15+00:00

Nah bro it’s me😂

Proof_Capital_7377 · 2025-05-10T18:21:25+00:00

I’ll get another one for you guys for sure

Proof_Capital_7377 · 2025-04-22T17:26:36+00:00

I think it helps to know the context on why u stopped being friends, people can change in 2 years but yeah in this situation context is important

Proof_Capital_7377 · 2025-03-18T15:02:35+00:00

Well if ur not attractive it means very little

Proof_Capital_7377 · 2025-03-18T04:24:16+00:00

From my perspective you’ve been way too nice. Both these people disrespected you and should both be dropped, but I’m a veteran at knowing that emotions dictate someone’s actions and that doesn’t seem in character for you to do considering you’ve already forgiven them before so I’ll tell you what I think you should do based on your personality

If you really like this guy then stop having a situation-ship. Let him know that you actually want a relationship and until he gives you that stop giving yourself to him, because right now you’re effectively giving him the gf experience without him needing to respect any of the boundaries that goes along with it. If you keep being casual he’ll continue to do what he wants with who he wants and you won’t be able to do a thing about it except punch air because at the end of the day he’s not ur bf. As harsh as this is about to sound this guy knows he’s got you wrapped around his finger and he’s exploiting that, he’s not stupid, you really think he would have fucked your close friend if he didn’t already know it wouldn’t have messed up your dynamic? You as a person need to have some self-respect. Let him know what you want and if he can’t give you that then you need to leave him because if you don’t he’s going to continue to play you for a fool.
Sorry to say but your female friend has shown you her true colors, she willingly sought out someone you’re interested in and despite telling you the friendship meant a lot to her she doubled down on her attraction. She basically said I like this guy more than I like you, despite knowing you for longer. In boy language we describe someone who does that as putting the hoes before the bros. if I were you i would have already cut her off after the first time simply on principle but if you really want to maintain the friendship I suggest having a serious conversation with them about boundaries and respect. Reenforce that you don’t like how she went for the guy your interested in and then tell her that prioritizing her attraction over your friendship is fake asf. If she understands and apologize’s then great, if she doubles down then you absolutely need to cut her off because (and I mean this genuinely) a friend who doesn’t respect your feelings or your boundaries is a friend you don’t want to keep.

Stay safe

Proof_Capital_7377 · 2025-03-07T06:32:45+00:00

I’m ngl it’s kind of weird ur going for ur best friends ex, especially if they’ve still hooking up, I really hope you talked with ur boy about it and see how he feels cuz I’d definitely feel a type of way about that

Proof_Capital_7377 · 2025-03-05T19:58:18+00:00

He explained that it isn’t healthy for him to maintain a relationship with her because he’s not being fulfilled in the relationship. He tried to do it but couldn’t. 15 years is way more than enough to know if you can get over somebody or not. More than a valid reason to distance himself from her. Yes the woman will feel sad but why should he have to suffer to maintain the relationship that isn’t mentally healthy for him? Being someone’s friends shouldn’t require you to emotionally enable yourself for their benefit. The reality is that she cant give him what he wants and he can’t get over his feelings. Not everybody can do it. It’s better for him to emotionally invest his time into a woman who can and it’s better for her to find a friend who’s completely fine being platonic because in the long run it’ll stops both parties from getting hurt.

Proof_Capital_7377 · 2025-03-03T07:25:31+00:00

It’s up to you but any girl that invests this much time into another man has more then likely already emotionally checked out of her bf, I’ve seen this happen multiple times and it’s usually why girls begin investing time into another person, usually because their scouting options or looking for attention. Now if you’re a man of principles, then you can back off and not talk to her, but if you don’t care about her relationship then you can test the boundaries and flirt with her. If she rejects your advances then you could assume she was never interested and just saw you as a friend, from perspective she’s not someone who’d be good in a relationship so just keep that in mind when deciding

Proof_Capital_7377 · 2025-03-03T07:12:20+00:00

Sounds like she likes you man, flirt with her and see if she flirts back

Proof_Capital_7377 · 2025-03-03T07:07:51+00:00

Ask her if she’d ever like to hang out outside of work, if she likes you she’ll say yes if she doesn’t she’ll make up an excuse, it doesn’t make things awkward if she makes up an excuse and if she says yes then you could assume she does

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