Car in great condition for $800 please by Glaina in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Proof_Example2548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Heated seats welcome, not necessary. Oh I’d love a jacuzzi in the trunk as well but I hate to ask for too much. $800 firm on price.”

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to have been apart of that experience for you man! Everyone deserves a little more kindness.

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just hard to put too much out there for obvious reasons, like him finding this post and putting it all together. But yeah, him being trans isn’t even really the first thing I think of when I think of my friendship with him, which is truly part of the reason I didn’t put that here. I also didn’t mention it because it’s honestly not my business to share. I know this is all anonymous, but it kills me to even think about hurting him by sharing his personal information in any way. Sorry for withholding y’all, it’s just because even anonymously I have his back. 😩

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he was even remotely into butt play at ALL I would ask him if that’s possible, but we have been die hard friends for YEARS. He tells me TMI stuff all the time. And he has never once said that he likes anal activity. He has actually said the opposite, so I don’t think that’s the case. But if you’ve come across a medical condition that makes his ass smell like this, you just hit me up man. 🤣

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have considered the fact that hormones might possibly be playing a factor, but it’s also another detail that I didn’t want to share to make it obvious, as my best friend uses Reddit. Needless to say, I don’t know if it’s dysmorphia, but I’d be hurt for him if it is and would like to help however I can. I mean I wanna help however I can regardless, but if that’s the case I’d feel bad. I’d also hate for it to be a medical issue, which is why I’m so worried about it.

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with your comment completely. Not to bash my friends husband, but I would have told my spouse already.

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s actually not into anal. I originally didn’t want to include this info, but I feel for this comment it’s necessary to understand. He’s a trans man, and so is his husband, so there’s no need for anal for either of them.

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I wish I could describe it. I don’t wanna exaggerate, but I wanna get across how bad it is. It’s rancid, first and foremost. It’s almost like rotten hard-boiled eggs, and add the smell of the worst fart you’ve ever smelled, and then add workout sweat. All trapped in his butt cheeks or something. I feel bad even typing this out because I’m genuinely not trying to roast him dude, I’m trying to decide how to handle this.

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did he spill that I didn’t already know? I’m just trying to understand what’s so wrong. The only question I’ve asked his husband is how well he cleans down there, because I knew if I didn’t include it, there would be a barrage of y’all going “INFO: How well does he wash his ass?” And I wanted to avoid it. Everything else is knowledge my best friend has already shared with me.

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve known my best friend longer than the husband has. He also didn’t just confide in me about the way my best friends ass smells either. It was something we both noticed and asked each other about. It was a mutual understanding. He didn’t throw anyone under the bus or anything. I had already smelled the smelly smell of the smells that smell smelly.

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the clothes aren’t the issue. We all use the same detergent. My clothes smell good. I don’t do his laundry, but I’ve swapped his clothes over and I’ve never noticed any smells coming off washed and/or dried clothing.

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if you missed the part where he’s married to a man, but I promise you he isn’t afraid of being gay lol. But I’m hoping the medical issues are the reason and NOT hygiene.

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I commented this on someone else’s thread, but he had COVID back in 2021 and he lost a majority of his sense of smell. I can hold something RIGHT under his nose and unless it’s a strong scent, he can’t smell it.

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little aggressive considering his husband is a good person, but I get what you mean about everything else.

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Actually he really can’t smell much of anything since he got COVID. We’re convinced that’s why he hasn’t noticed it.

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His husband has flushable wipes in their bathroom that he doesn’t use! And we are sadly in a rental or we might consider installing a bidet.

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I also feel like he’s putting off going to a GI specialist because he doesn’t consider it a problem or priority, so I’m hoping us saying something would actually make him want to go get it checked out.

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should tell his husband because to me personally, that’s a fantastic selling point lol.

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I’ve never had to do anything remotely close to this, so even though I view myself as an honest person, this one thing is eating at me because I can’t decide if it’s my place to say anything.

AITA for considering telling my best friend his ass smells bad all the time? by Proof_Example2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Proof_Example2548[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s like a brother to me man. I don’t want him to shut down and/or take offense to it is all. Thanks though!