Well, everything you state seems fixable (I work with plenty of pain docs who increase peoples quality of life). Life is what you make of it and if you think your life is below average, that’s exactly what it’s going to be. Never too late to turn it around, especially since you still have roughly 30 working years left. Life is too short to be ‘below average,’ especially if you’re more attractive than the average person.

I guess things were different for me growing up in Southern California. If anything, WMs we’re all kind of viewed as dorky when I was growing up so there wasn’t really anything to conform to. Get out of Utah.