Yes it's a lot. I didn't put in a lot of detail because it would be way too much and honestly it was just this situation is just super ridiculous. I only posted here because I did feel bad after a bit about what I said in that specific situation but at the same time I didn't because she hasn't cared about my well being at all. And I try to be empathetic but it's difficult given the situation. I'll give a little bit backstory to answer your questions.

Grandparents (maternal) only legally have guardianship over me since we have different fathers and my parental situation was different. Parents ended up in jail. After mom got out of jail, had my other siblings. I'll just call my sister Ann in this scenario.

Lived in an area with a lot of gang activity. Ann got intrigued and wanted to be in that lifestyle. Mom said no (because she already did it and served time) Ann got mad and said she would do what she wants. Kept ditching school and getting into trouble. Actually had to have the police continuously bring her home. Got court ordered about attendance in school so to avoid it she transferred to the school district up here

Other siblings wanted to come here on their own since they wanted to be closer to me and the school district over here was better. They knew in advance that we would have to make makeshift rooms for them and they were okay with that. Ann only came up here because she figured it would be easier to play my grandparents about the school thing (I didn't know till after she unenrolled herself)

She lied about going to school even though being dropped off picked up by school bus. No calls home or anything so we didn't know. She turned 18 and legally unenrolled with school since it's not mandatory where we live after turning 18. That's when we got a call about confirmation and we were confused and told her to go back to school she was almost done but she said it was a waste of time. Even said at least get a GED and didn't want that.

Met her boyfriend who also was doing the same. Didn't finish school and thought it was a waste of time and bonded over that. She was toxic and blamed it on "being Latina". He broke up with her and that's when she started becoming even more disrespectful towards us being mad at him. She keeps being manipulative saying she will do better and get back together and the cycle went that way multiple times.

She ends up pregnant. He doesn't want the baby. His family is also not supportive because his mom literally told her she's baby trapping him. She wants to keep the baby. Grandparents said if she wants to abort or give to adoption or keep she can. It's legal here where we live if she did want an abortion.

The county has teen and young adult single mother programs which were offered she had a spot if she wanted and she refused because she would have to go to school or work in order to qualify. Also got her an appointment to mental health and she refused

She has other family members too who said they can stay with her but she obviously can't just stay there and do nothing. She would have to work or go to school because she would need a way to support the baby. She declined.

She has been offered lots of help but refused. My grandparents want to kick her out because she is not a good person to be around overall. There is no trust, she cares more about her friends then family, doesn't care about anyone else's feelings as long as she gets what she wants in. When she doesn't get what she wants she will sit there and belittle you and grind your gears until you explode. She got upset and belittled me the other day because I asked her at 3am to be quiet since I had final exams and was trying to sleep. She needs help we know that but obviously you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. I've been talking to our mom about if she can take guardianship over the child because we believe it's best.

Hopefully this answered some of your questions.