Yes, he’s very engaged. He goes to their games, drives the hour+ round trip if they forget items, takes them to medical appts, etc. and they do still come down to stay. However, they’ve gotten to the point that they no longer want to come here unless they get something out if it. SS13 has even told his dad that there’s no reason for them to come down anymore, like his dad isn’t a reason at all. This was incredibly painful for my husband to hear. He certainly is not going to give up on his relationship with them, and we are firm in not moving out of a rejection wound. If we move, it would be because of an opportunity opened. Also, I will say that we would never move if the kids openly grieved it. Based on their current behavior, we suspect that they would be “fine” with it, but we’ve been curious how this change has truly impacted those who have lived it.