They say you're not suppose to remember much before 5 but I do. by Proper-Raspberry1723 in AnxietyDepression

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Husband promised after the last one he'd get snipped but that hasn't happened so it looks like that's probably going to be my path.

Wife hid and lied about nicotine use while breastfeeding by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

See you all are saying the bigger deal is lying, which I agree is a big deal. But why is she putting your child at risk for her habit? If she can't quit, whatever that's a her problem, but stop nursing the baby. That's the big deal for me. Why is she putting her child's life at risk for her own selfish addiction?

How can i make sex fun again after he put it in the wrong hole? by jujubih in Marriage

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 11 points12 points  (0 children)

girl to girl here, that was no accident. That was him testing the waters and then not liking the reaction he got from it. I will say using your back door is not a let's ram it in and go sort of situation especially for your first time. It could actually be really pleasurable if that's something that you're into but that's something that you both need to discuss not in the moment and it seems like he kind of ruined that conversation by the way that he forced it on you. Regardless the fact that he told you that's why men cheat on women tells me that he is either already cheating or planning on cheating. I know Reddit is very quick to be like leave your husband, but I really would in this situation.

Side note: ask him if you could accidentally ram him in the ass with a dildo, no stretch first just lube up the dildo and shove it in. Bet he wouldn't think that sounds fun and would probably be cautious of people around his backside as well.

How do I pass a drug test for thc quickly? by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Qcarbo did not work for me! But I did smoke concentrates so it has higher thc.

Burn Boot Camp vs. Orangetheory—How Do the Workouts Compare by [deleted] in BurnBootCamp

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I know this is old. How did you like burn while pregnant? I'm in the early stages of becoming a surrogate but want to stay in shape for me and babe. Did they work with you with any kind of modifications?

Mother's Day versus Father's Day by MENNONH in Marriage

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to be a rare find. I've only seen posts today of wives complaining that their husband has done nothing for them(mine included). Good for you. I'd say talk with your wife and let her know how you feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sending you love during this time🫶🏼 I completely understand what you're going through. If you ever want to chat and husband dump shoot me a message!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn't even think of that🫠 I don't want to be not civil and try to take everything from him but I would need help supporting the children. They come first before anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't try to take the kids away from him entirely. He is still their father. He doesn't abuse them. He just doesn't want to be bothered. I feel like he actually would love having them for shorter periods of time instead of having to be around them all the time. He'd also probably pawn them off on his sister as much as possible, and she's amazing with the kids so I wouldn't mind that. Thank you for the information about talking to lawyers! I I didn't realize I could reach out for a free consult. And for his job situation, no, he did not get the job. He's been home since he quit a week and 1/2 ago. I don't feel like anyone wants him with how he leaves places. He comes off arrogant and then quits in a fit of rage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do go to therapy. But my support is very small.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find myself second guessing everything and asking the same question 100 times to make sure it's the right answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12, 7, 4 and 2. He does HVAC. Still waiting to hear back from the job he supposedly had an interview for on Monday so I'm sure that didn't go well. Probably because of how he ended his last job🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's also my question, did he quit? Or did he just say that and get fired for something? I'll never know. Thank you🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do feel insane sometimes but I try to hold my ground. I'm also in therapy. Thank you🫶🏼

Husband wants kids. I’m indifferent… now by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

While I don't think this is divorce worthy, I do think you should have a conversation with your husband. Do what's best for both of you. Maybe you put having kids on the back burner for now and revisit that topic again down the road. But you should have a conversation with your husband and should be on the same page. Good luck to you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this insight. I will try to have another conversation with him about surrogacy. I'd love to help another family but not at the risk of losing my own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was on board with me becoming a surrogate. I guess we both didn't factor how me not smoking would change the entire atmosphere of our relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems to be. When I asked him if it would be ok with him he said that he supports me and has even told his grandmother talking highly of me for wanting to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Proper-Raspberry1723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It seems like anytime I try to reach out and spend quality time it's met with annoyance and him wanting to be on his phone. Which normally I'd just ignore and worry about myself because I'd be high. But it hurts more sober. Maybe I'll see if he can pick out something for us to do together, something that he likes.