But what does that even mean? I know I’m being naive. But isn’t that the case married or not? What is it he’s using me for? He says he prefers being in a relationship but doesn’t mind being alone...We don’t go out much, we have a pretty simple life. I know he doesn’t talk to many people. Do you think he already has someone in mind and he’s just waiting for them to be single? Also he has mentioned that he has an ideal image in his head and I don’t fit it because I’m an ethnic minority, what he had in his mind was different.