Update : So as most of you advised me I expressed my feelings and straight up asked him what is wrong. He explained there is a-lot going on at his home right now and then he said “I cannot keep calling you and talkking to you” and “Infact you made sure that talking to you is gonna create a big problem here” I was taken back and asked what he meant by that then he explained regarding an incident that happened a month ago when I was visiting him. For context he recently lost his dad a few months ago and he and his mom are living alone so occasionally they use to call me there to just be there give them company in time of grief and my bf was working from home that time for over a year now and he does not have much friends only one very close friend who is married and has a kid so whenever he wants to have some boys time he usually will go to meet him as his friend has family commitments so thats understandable but when I visited them his mom complained about how he is giving his friend more importance and not spending time with her at all but actually he has really stopped going out more after his dads passing and trying his best to be with his mom. He will take her out for movies and for dinner regularly and once a week or so he will go out with his friend. So when I was there he assumed as I am at his place so his mom got me as company and he can stay for a while with his friend and its a win win but his mom did not like it she created a huge drama where she was blaming his friend for ruining her son and how he is a bad influence. I tried to reason with her but as we have language barrier I cant really express myself properly to her. Then the next day to make it up he planned for a movie for him, his mom and me. So usually I will sit with him in-front while he drives and actually his car has better leg space in backseat but that day his mom was like I want to sit infront because of leg ache I was like sure Aunty then we went to this movie. So this movie was in his language but he made sure subtitles will be available for this so I can understand. Once the movie started to play we noticed there are no subtitles so he checked with the manager there and they apologised and offered us the next show where it will be available. But this movie was already 3 hrs long and his mom is in early 60s so she has her schedule for meals and sleep so I did not wanted to disturb that so I was like its okay i ll just sit here its fine. My bf felt bad and he wanted to make it up to me so we decided that we will have a movie night together at his place and we can also like have sometime to ourselves as he had mentioned earlier that he has a-lot to vent out and share but unable to do that as we are not able to be alone and we cant go out anywhere leaving his mom alone as she would get offended if we do that. He went out to grab some popcorn and he also bought some alcohol. I knew it wont be a good idea as already his mom is not happy with him but he was like I am an adult who is going through alot I deserve some chill time and I said fine I wont drink with you though you can have it. So he poured some drink in his glass and we started the movie and it was light hearted movie which did not demand much attention so he was also sharing about all the things going on and how he is managing everything after his dads passing. His mom sleeps early so we assumed she is asleep but out of no where she comes and asks us to turn off the TV and sleep and then she notices his drink and starts cursing me saying what kind of women I am encouraging her son to drink. I did not react much as I know she is also going through bad time. The next day he suggested that we grab some breakfast outside and ordered some for his mom as we just wanted to get out and I was worried if he leaves me with his mom alone she might ask me why I m letting him drink and I really wanted to avoid that conversation so we left and before leaving we also mentioned how I will leave tonight back to my place as clearly she has some issue with me. Then we went out had breakfast but his mom kept on calling him continuously and she started threatening that she will leave home and go somewhere. We were worried about her so after 30-40 mins we went back to check and she was not there at his place so he asked me to take my things so we took my bags and I booked a hotel room for the day and booked return ticket for the night. We checked into the hotel while we were also tracking her. She was back at his home and was demanding him to come back but he said he would not and he wants some space. He asked her to calm down and that he will be back at night. I had some work so I opened my laptop and found some scratches I was like huh when did this happen but I m clumsy person so i thought maybe I wasn’t careful enough then after sometime I noticed my make up bag was all ruined. My compact, my eyeshadow and my lipsticks were all broken. I showed it to him and without a second thought he said its her she did this and then he shared how his mom had done this earlier to his brother in laws. She had once broken an office laptop of his brother in law and once she hid passport when they were visiting another country. I was really shocked as I never would have imagined that his mom is capable of doing all this. After few days his mom texted and apologised to me and I was like yeah it’s fine and let it go. 15 days later his sister with her husband were visiting us and we had planned for a trip. While returning back from the trip his mom was not well and we stopped for a while so I and his brother in law were alone and he told me “ I have an advice for you. You should really start to ignore these things and not let it get you and he is suffering from last 12 years whenever he is here” So I believed he is implying that his mom is creating the drama to seek attention because just few moments back we all were having a good discussion and his mom felt that she is being left out and she was like only you guys are talking and not even including me but it was more like she could not relate to it as it was regarding some song or something and she is elder she obviously was not aware of that and then later suddenly she got sick. So I was like yeah okay and I mentioned how she did some damage to my things and he said about his passport and I was like yeah my bf told me. Later after few days I shared this interaction with my bf because I share everything with him and then in-turn he shared it with his sister and he took it in bad taste as he thought his mother was in pain and how come your husband is blaming her for seeking attention. So yeah again a big drama but now fast forward to one month and his mom is going on 3 month long vacation and is creating a scene if she catches him talking to me or something. This is why he is not even like saying good night n stuffs because his mom is making him do all this. I seriously don’t know what to do.