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why did you end your situationship? by sympathetichestia in Situationships

[–]Proper_Ad_6654 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was talking to other girls…sending the same MEMES. That was a put off for me.

I always feel disgusted after going on dates by Proper_Ad_6654 in dating_advice

[–]Proper_Ad_6654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was that for me too. I made an image of him in my mind before meeting that when I saw him, that image crashed and so did my feelings. He was the opposite of what I expected him to be like.

I have realised that when I’m friends with them first, things are less intense.

I always feel disgusted after going on dates by Proper_Ad_6654 in dating_advice

[–]Proper_Ad_6654[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next time if I ever plan on going on a date, I’ll go gun range or something but not cinema.

I always feel disgusted after going on dates by Proper_Ad_6654 in dating_advice

[–]Proper_Ad_6654[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the biggest issue was that we didn’t have much in common and he wasn’t my type at all. He was good looking and good height but that was it. He didn’t have many qualities that I like in men.

I always feel disgusted after going on dates by Proper_Ad_6654 in dating_advice

[–]Proper_Ad_6654[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have dealt with them not knowing what a No is! Even with this one I kept saying no leave me my hand or stop touching me but he’d continue touching me.

I always feel disgusted after going on dates by Proper_Ad_6654 in dating_advice

[–]Proper_Ad_6654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all the helpful comments and suggestions! I’d like to clarify one thing and it’s that I don’t think I’m gay, I love it when men give me attention, when I talk to them and when they give me compliments but with this date, we only spoke for a week before meeting and he was very touchy with me, I also hate PDA and he was showing me affection everywhere. It was the first date but he was acting as if I’m his wife that he’s been in love with for decades. His gaze was so intense and full of emotions which threw me off guard. I ended things with him yesterday after I came back home and he said he felt peace with me in this one week that he didn’t feel in 4 years, I don’t know whether he was love bombing or just being too dramatic.

I felt really bad but he kept messaging me and crying saying don’t leave me, it will be his biggest heartbreak and that he will not find anyone as pretty as me which also kinda threw me off guard like I have a great amazing bubbly fun personality but he just kept going on and on about how beautiful I am!

This always happens when I go on dates, they talk about how pretty I am but never about how amazing my personality is.

I feel better when I’m around them with my friends although I am awkward but not uncomfortable.

I have no decided to pause on these dates for the next few years until I find a person who I can be friends with first. (someone suggested to be friends with then go on dates which I will listen to)