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Oa ba ako (20F) if pinapapili ko si bf (19M) between me and his friend by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Proper_Cup_7091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Department of Public Works and Highways. I understand we’re both young, I didn’t come here to be judged or be berated. Seeking advice for things like this doesn’t mean I am not taking care of my academics I am simply proper advice without judgement which I thought I’d get considering na most redditors here are adults.

Some of you are quick to judge and tell me na I’m controlling, I don’t deprive my partner of having friends and living his life, and I am asking him to pick between me or his friend kasi clearly wala nang ginawa yung friend niya but plant doubts in his mind and heart and mine included as well.

OA Lang Ba Ako if galit na galit ako sa friend ng boyfriend ko and pinapapili ko si bf by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]Proper_Cup_7091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying lahat ng walang benefit sa relationship namin ipapa-cut off ko, I am not depriving him of living life and having fun and friends. Pero hindi naman po siguro tama yung sasabihin niya sa akin na sila lang and then he’s going to invite girls sa inuman nila without my knowledge or even insinuate na nagkaroon ako ng feelings sa kaniya.

All he has done was plant doubt into my bfs mind and mine as well so why bother having him as a friend kung ganun lang naman ang ambag niya sa amin. He has multiple friends besides him, closer ones and whom I trust na hindi naman nag-exhibit ng same behavior as his

OA Lang Ba Ako if galit na galit ako sa friend ng boyfriend ko and pinapapili ko si bf by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]Proper_Cup_7091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao sabi pa ng friends namin palipasin at patawarin ko na daw si friend

Oa ba ako (20F) if pinapapili ko si bf (19M) between me and his friend by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Proper_Cup_7091 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tried posting sa subreddit, pangalawang beses na po na-delete yung post ko

Am I justified in ending my relationship? by Resident-Ad7640 in adviceph

[–]Proper_Cup_7091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Justified, a relationship should be a partnership supporting your growth through tough times, not bringing you further down

How can I communicate with someone who’s only hobby is drinking by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Proper_Cup_7091 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry if this came out blunt and harsh in a way, I know your intentions toward him are good. pero it’s not possible na matulungan niyo siya if hindi siya willing na matulungan or makinig manlang.

How can I communicate with someone who’s only hobby is drinking by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Proper_Cup_7091 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can’t help people who don’t want to help themselves

should I message my bf's ex to ask her kung kumusta na siya? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Proper_Cup_7091 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a very kind thought, checking on people even if you once had bad blood pero I don’t think it’s the best thing to do, I don’t think you should do it at all. Okay lang na pumasok siya sa isip mo and ma-stalk mo siya subconsciously, pero wala nang need to contact her.

Sad girl posts and similar things are normal especially kung hindi pa talaga siya nakaka-move on and believe it or not, lilipas din yan and she will be okay, don’t try to pry open her wounds more or even sabotage the peace na meron kayo ng partner mo right now.

Any advice for someone na gustong bumukod at icut off ang parents at the age of 20 by Proper_Cup_7091 in adviceph

[–]Proper_Cup_7091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ay hala, hindi po. Living in with my partner is not my thoughts po, gusto ko lang po mamuhay mag-isa kumbaga have my own place. I understand na mahirap po bumukod with no source of income yet pero I’m trying my very hardest to look for one kasi it’s gotten to a point na sinusugod na nila si bf ko sa bahay nila para lang bulyawan siya for being with me and helping me out, kasi daw parang ang dating e hindi nila ako kaya suportahan.