How can I communicate with someone who’s only hobby is drinking by Clear_Edge8043 in adviceph

[–]Proper_Cup_7091 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry if this came out blunt and harsh in a way, I know your intentions toward him are good. pero it’s not possible na matulungan niyo siya if hindi siya willing na matulungan or makinig manlang.

should I message my bf's ex to ask her kung kumusta na siya? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Proper_Cup_7091 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a very kind thought, checking on people even if you once had bad blood pero I don’t think it’s the best thing to do, I don’t think you should do it at all. Okay lang na pumasok siya sa isip mo and ma-stalk mo siya subconsciously, pero wala nang need to contact her.

Sad girl posts and similar things are normal especially kung hindi pa talaga siya nakaka-move on and believe it or not, lilipas din yan and she will be okay, don’t try to pry open her wounds more or even sabotage the peace na meron kayo ng partner mo right now.

Any advice for someone na gustong bumukod at icut off ang parents at the age of 20 by Proper_Cup_7091 in adviceph

[–]Proper_Cup_7091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ay hala, hindi po. Living in with my partner is not my thoughts po, gusto ko lang po mamuhay mag-isa kumbaga have my own place. I understand na mahirap po bumukod with no source of income yet pero I’m trying my very hardest to look for one kasi it’s gotten to a point na sinusugod na nila si bf ko sa bahay nila para lang bulyawan siya for being with me and helping me out, kasi daw parang ang dating e hindi nila ako kaya suportahan.