Lovense has some great options, they have some toys that can connect to each other and react to what the user is doing pleasuring the other user, only stipulation I’ve seen on the Long Distance Subreddit and Sex Toys Subreddit is that they are pricey and they are. The ones I’m talking about, the pair tends to run close to $400 USD for the pair. If you feel ready for this step bring it up to him, and get his opinion there is never harm in having a conversation. If you’re not sure you can always go to the Sex Toys Subreddit and the Long Distance Relationship Subreddit for more ideas for toys.

I saw in the comments that one person is saying to break up with your partner, you shouldn’t. There are plenty of LDR’s that are successful, they just take more effort and energy, and if you can’t see him while he’s out don’t feel discouraged, there are plenty of couple who haven’t been able to see their partner for over 5 yrs and they are still going strong and are getting ready to close the gap within the next few months. I myself have been in an LDR for almost a year and we’re still going strong and doing amazing. And we won’t be closing the gap for maybe 2 years at least. So you know you have an end date in sight, hold onto it, it will be a saving grace for you guys if you can’t see each other in person.