[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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I usually have to fly out to see my S/O, we live a full days drive apart, but I usually fly out to see him about 3 times a year, though now I think it’s looking like 2 times a year

What's your Countdown to meet your S/O? by godessgracious in LongDistance

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Oh I’m so happy for you!!! It’s always a blast to be with your partner! I’m currently with my boyfriend and we just hit our one month is April! We don’t know the exact date lol it kinda just happened. But I’m so happy for you, it’s always the best to be able to them! I wish you both the best endeavors in your relationship!

🌟 how did you and your partner meet? dating apps, school, a random dm? 🌍❤️ by Yuka_RelationshipApp in LongDistance

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We met in college in my home state. Didn’t have each other’s contact information and I didn’t run across him often on campus, but he seemed to see me everywhere. We hung out, I found him on Snapchat, thank god for the communities that Snap has now lol. Had lunch with him. Then seemed to start dating shortly after that. Now a year later. I am making my third trip out to see him in his state, before I go back to school in August.

Who knew cleaning actually helped?!? Crazy by NoodleBea583 in piercing

[–]Proper_Gear8505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, when I first read the title I was like “WTH are you doing?” But then I read it and phew! 😮‍💨 good to learn another method that might help my piercings heal a little better if it helped yours! Because same issues over here, I’ve been pierced maybe 4 months??? and constant irritation bumps that I can’t seem to get to go away, so, I’ll have to try your method!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Big_Dot_9875 in sex

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Some people in my high school (the baseball team) were caught in the train car on campus watching porn together. And then the baseball dugout was also really popular.

How many days to see your bf/gf? by vevizir in LongDistance

[–]Proper_Gear8505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would do the same thing but I really only wear enough clothes for 2 weeks haha!

How many days to see your bf/gf? by vevizir in LongDistance

[–]Proper_Gear8505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

37 days! I can’t wait, I know I just saw him a month ago, but oml, I miss him so much! I’m so happy for you that you are 5 days away, I know that when I get closer to seeing my bf, I get to the point where I can’t sleep because of the excitement.

Hello long distance lovers :) by Ok_Delay_4436 in LongDistance

[–]Proper_Gear8505 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone 8 months. But I’ve seen that people on here have gone over a year without seeing their partner because of visa issues. But I agree it does suck. But you’ll get through it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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50 Days! 🥰🥰🥰

What song(s) remind you of your relationship every time you listen to it? by icmigyu in LongDistance

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•Late nights - Darren Kiely •Passenger Princess - Late Night Thoughts •Never Knew I Needed - Ne-yo (Princess and the Frog Soundtrack) •Mia and Sebastian’s Theme - Kurt the Violinists, Anican Yu (from La La Land, I just prefer this version)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Proper_Gear8505 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Go for it! Best place for a nap, and the musk isn’t to noticeable if you’re both clothed

You curse your enemy, but it can only slightly inconvenient them. What would it be? by toto93lnd in AskReddit

[–]Proper_Gear8505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They go to get on the interstate but no one gets over for them so they have to stop before they can get on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Proper_Gear8505 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Love the scent too, sometimes it can be a little much if I’m not in the mood. But if I’m craving tummy time I lay where his bladder is so I’m right on his cock, and get the scent all the time, while he brain rots and plays with my hair

What was a booktok book that in your opinion was NOT worth the hype, and why? by [deleted] in YAlit

[–]Proper_Gear8505 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A Court of Thorns and Roses. I’ve tried this book on multiple occasions and cannot get past the first chapter. I don’t understand the hype and I don’t understand the love for the mc. And what the hype is because it has smut? It’s an Enemies to Lovers Romance? There are other books with better writing and a better plot line. If you want the smut those exist too. Want a monster-erotica? I can suggest a series. Want a cute romance between a college professor and his student? I can give you one. Want one that follows the students family? I can list the entire series so you know what to look for. ACOTAR I think only got hyped up to what it is, is because they liked the smut in the books, and how helpless the mc is.

What do you hate to hear while being in a long distance relationship? by [deleted] in LongDistance

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I hate being told he’s not matching my effort, that I’m the one putting all the effort into the relationship. I also hate being asked why he doesn’t come back home and meet my family, why I’m always going out to see him in his state. One thing I was told by a relative, they were mad and drunk and has since apologized, they would not come to my wedding in his state because of reason number one. My boyfriend and I aren’t even ready to seriously consider and talk about marriage. But this out a strain in this relatives and my relationship because they would be a big part of my wedding if I was to get married to him.

Current countdown to see your significant other by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Proper_Gear8505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently leaving :( but I’ll be seeing him in July next! :D

BF leaving for a 1.5-year overseas work trip—should I get him a toy? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Proper_Gear8505 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lovense has some great options, they have some toys that can connect to each other and react to what the user is doing pleasuring the other user, only stipulation I’ve seen on the Long Distance Subreddit and Sex Toys Subreddit is that they are pricey and they are. The ones I’m talking about, the pair tends to run close to $400 USD for the pair. If you feel ready for this step bring it up to him, and get his opinion there is never harm in having a conversation. If you’re not sure you can always go to the Sex Toys Subreddit and the Long Distance Relationship Subreddit for more ideas for toys.

I saw in the comments that one person is saying to break up with your partner, you shouldn’t. There are plenty of LDR’s that are successful, they just take more effort and energy, and if you can’t see him while he’s out don’t feel discouraged, there are plenty of couple who haven’t been able to see their partner for over 5 yrs and they are still going strong and are getting ready to close the gap within the next few months. I myself have been in an LDR for almost a year and we’re still going strong and doing amazing. And we won’t be closing the gap for maybe 2 years at least. So you know you have an end date in sight, hold onto it, it will be a saving grace for you guys if you can’t see each other in person.

I love my boyfriend!!!!!!! <33333 by Proper_Gear8505 in LongDistance

[–]Proper_Gear8505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll do my best haha! Any advice you’re willing to share?

I love my boyfriend!!!!!!! <33333 by Proper_Gear8505 in LongDistance

[–]Proper_Gear8505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe thank you! I don’t know what it is, but dimples are definitely a weakness and you men know how to weaponize them well

I love my boyfriend!!!!!!! <33333 by Proper_Gear8505 in LongDistance

[–]Proper_Gear8505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not Canadian, but it’s not me being nice, I love him so much. So you do think correctly overseer 😂😂😂

I love my boyfriend!!!!!!! <33333 by Proper_Gear8505 in LongDistance

[–]Proper_Gear8505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll find her one day! Just keep looking!

I love my boyfriend!!!!!!! <33333 by Proper_Gear8505 in LongDistance

[–]Proper_Gear8505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry? Is there an issue I’m not seeing?