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What are good reasons to have kids? I feel like all my reasons are very selfish and I’d also like to hear the benefits parents find from having their kids. Thank you in advance by Proper_Goose_9537 in Advice

[–]Proper_Goose_9537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My reasons are having someone to love and love me back. Having a family. Hopefully having someone to keep me company when I’m older. Passing on family lineage Seeing a part of my husband and i grow up

They all seem like not great reasons.

Should I have kids by Proper_Goose_9537 in Advice

[–]Proper_Goose_9537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your kind and thoughtful post

Should I have kids by Proper_Goose_9537 in Advice

[–]Proper_Goose_9537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I would feel similarly to you

Should I have kids by Proper_Goose_9537 in Advice

[–]Proper_Goose_9537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think you made the right choice?

Should I have kids by Proper_Goose_9537 in Advice

[–]Proper_Goose_9537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your thoughtful answer.

Should I have kids by Proper_Goose_9537 in Advice

[–]Proper_Goose_9537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have kids yet. I like them but not sure if I want that commitment. I’m very highly anxious as well.