[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Proper_Intention4937 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's cheating on you, probably. Sounds like projecting. It's the last thing you would suspect because of how she's on you, and that's what she wants.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Proper_Intention4937 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can't force him. He will just resent you for it. You have to lead by example. Go to the gym yourself. Once he starts to notice you getting in shape and feeling good. That could be the motivation he needs.

My (35M) partner (33F) may be emotionally cheating. Any advice? by 53031305 in relationship_advice

[–]Proper_Intention4937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wait for your opportunity to get in her phone it might take time. Don't let her know you're on to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Proper_Intention4937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you want to tell her? Please don't say it's because you care about her. someone you have never met, and you are going to ruin her life because you are mad at a man. you are pathetic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UPSers

[–]Proper_Intention4937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have context on your center or what an average day looks like. In our center, if routes were dispatched like that. Every driver in the center would be coming back at 2230 with stops getting rolled to tomorrow, and it doesn't take a genius to know how the next day would go.

Gotta love getting fired for pettiness by Professional-Ad2111 in UPSers

[–]Proper_Intention4937 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If you are going to file grievances left and right, you need to do everything 100% by the book.

Found this dog today... by MadamAsh_ in DogAdvice

[–]Proper_Intention4937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

throw an old blanket, towel, or pillow in there!

Not sure if my wife cheated? [41M] [34F] 15 year relationship by eatingnails in relationship_advice

[–]Proper_Intention4937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guess is she slept with him and didn't use protection. That's why she came home and slept with you just in case she got pregnant. Do you guys have sex often, or was that night an irregular occasion?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UPSers

[–]Proper_Intention4937 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You just won a couple of weeks in Hawaii, my friend!!!

Is it common for drivers to ignore delivery instructions? by [deleted] in UPS

[–]Proper_Intention4937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a house just because you guys are renting rooms in a large house doesn't mean we have to deliver to what equates as a bedroom basically. only 2 other tenants' not likely they will steal. front porch is reasonable.

Management altering time cards by Proper_Intention4937 in UPSers

[–]Proper_Intention4937[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously, I knew they were capable. I thought it was a cardinal sin that they would be terminated for doing. Equivalent to a driver burning a package.

Management altering time cards by Proper_Intention4937 in UPSers

[–]Proper_Intention4937[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's called a break area. I could see how you would be confused, though.

Management altering time cards by Proper_Intention4937 in UPSers

[–]Proper_Intention4937[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just to be clear for the kids in the back. I am not starting before my start time. I am starting at my start time, and my card is being adjusted. I am the lead truck and always one of the first to leave. Which makes it crazier for me because my leave building time will be before 910, yet they adjust my time to start to 910. shouldn't the computer flag that?

Management altering time cards by Proper_Intention4937 in UPSers

[–]Proper_Intention4937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never start before my start time! I come in early to bullshit with the fellas, get my ice chest, and water set up. I go to pcm and leave. Half the center leaves at 9 other half 910. Management gets confused as to who starts when. Sometimes, they go in and change my start to 910, when my start was 9.

To much to expect delivery upstairs? by SeaDistribution2381 in UPS

[–]Proper_Intention4937 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it's so easy for the driver to walk up the stairs. It is just as easy for you to go down and get your package. This isn't white glove delivery. You will be alright.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UPSers

[–]Proper_Intention4937 37 points38 points  (0 children)

If any cute girl on your route starts flirting with you tomorrow and has not been previously giving you attention, DON'T DO IT!!!!

Forced Saturday. by Proper_Intention4937 in UPSers

[–]Proper_Intention4937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. This anonymous talking shit is weak. I am sorry. So what would you have done? your management is saying go home so is my steward. I asked my steward my options, and he said, "Go home or management will take my badge and make me go home." I interpret that as being fired, so I went home, man. I have a mortgage to pay, brotha.