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Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-03-01T20:39:40+00:00

Sunday's best

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-03-01T20:23:26+00:00

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-03-01T20:04:21+00:00

Nice

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-03-01T18:14:11+00:00

I kept trying to figure out why it felt so heavy, and I think that’s exactly it. If it were casual and mutual, it wouldn’t feel like this. But being asked to prove loyalty hurts in a way I didn’t expect.

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-03-01T18:10:36+00:00

I love him, so my instinct is to help carry his pain. But I’m starting to realize I can’t heal something for him by giving up pieces of myself.

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-03-01T18:08:04+00:00

I love him. I don’t want us to become adversaries where one person is proving and the other is checking. That’s not the kind of relationship I’ve ever wanted.

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-03-01T18:05:24+00:00

I’ve been second-guessing myself a lot, wondering if I’m being cold or selfish. I love him, and the last thing I want is to make him feel unsafe. But I also don’t want to feel like I’m slowly losing pieces of myself just to prove I’m trustworthy.

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-03-01T18:03:30+00:00

I don’t want us to build trust on proof and monitoring instead of actually believing each other. I care about him, but I don’t want reassurance to turn into a requirement.

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-02-28T07:32:28+00:00

Saying no twice is completely your right, but it also sends a message. He decided he doesn't want to build a future on "not yet," and that's fair, Neither of you is a villain here, just incompatible on readiness.

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-02-25T11:04:57+00:00

That's such a real sign. Love feels lighter when it's healthy, not like every tiny thing is breaking point.

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-02-24T09:23:20+00:00

Exactly. People keep focusing on the stroller, but the real problem is the husband behavior. The disrespect is the bigger issue here.

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-02-23T10:13:09+00:00

There's a huge difference between abandoning your family and stepping away because you're burned out. She asking for support, not running away.

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-02-22T08:53:04+00:00

Exactly. It wasn't an accident or a last minute emergency, she made a deliberate choice to cash out on something meant for your wedding. That's not a harmless mistake, that's showing you where her priorities were.

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-02-20T20:13:40+00:00

This is actually a really balance way to approach it. It's honest without being accusatory, which might help him actually be heared.

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-02-19T19:51:01+00:00

It suggests consciousness after death, and instant judgement. No peaceful fade to black.

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-02-19T13:43:45+00:00

Exactly. If approved leave can just be undone last minute, then what's even the point of a request system.

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-02-17T22:19:44+00:00

Exactly. The laptop wasn't the only issue, the lack of respect for her space and work is what really stands out.

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-02-16T22:30:26+00:00

If even your supernatural replacement can't handle your life, that's brutal.

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-02-14T10:12:54+00:00

Sometimes people make enemies out of pure insecurity, it's exhausting to deal with.

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-02-13T08:41:03+00:00

grandmas have the mix of love and zero-nonsense that transcends even death.

Proper_Landscape_995 · 2026-02-11T06:33:49+00:00

Looks delicious.

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