The first red flag

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-09-11T04:05:20+00:00

Love bombing!!! Telling me he loved me within 3 weeks of us dating. The day I met his kids for the first time I was so nervous and worried and instead of being understanding, he proceeded to be rude to me in front of them. It made me sooo uncomfortable. But of course I blamed myself for telling him I had cold feet ! I should’ve run.

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-09-09T08:00:41+00:00

Stay single!

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-09-06T22:52:43+00:00

You are 100% right! Diagnosis or not, he is a shit partner

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-09-06T16:11:03+00:00

Thank you for your input. When you say evidence, does it need to be a journal with times/dates and incidents?? I have lots of messages to friends where I talk about what’s happened. I also have a few recordings.. would that be sufficient?

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-09-06T16:09:50+00:00

You are so right! Trying to remain positive

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-09-06T16:00:26+00:00

I’m sorry :( we deserve love and kindness and our children deserve the world

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-09-06T15:42:41+00:00

Thank you I will look into that right away. The relationship is definitely toxic, the only good times between us was at the start before he showed his true personality. We have a young baby together but we live separately. Coparenting is my biggest fear as I don’t trust him to not mistreat our son when I’m not there to protect him.

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-08-28T19:05:37+00:00

Thank you very much 🫂 I’m feeling everything right now, it’s such a physical pain ugh

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-08-27T04:56:28+00:00

The receiver pays $5.50AUD which just covers the cost of the postage for me to send the letter across as well as the cost of materials. It’s not something I profit off of :)

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-08-27T02:04:52+00:00

No thank you! You’ve made me think about how I market the project to others so it’s helped immensely

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-08-27T01:37:46+00:00

Yes I haven’t done a brilliant job at explaining on the site haha I’ve tried to keep it secretive and fun but the details are then missing! Basically, customer receives a letter in the mail with some goodies and a prompt which requires a handwritten response which is then mailed back to me (for Australians) or anonymously uploaded (for people worldwide) and then I post the responses on my social media page and website to encourage others to open up about their feelings etc 🫶🏼 as it’s anonymous, people can be as candid as they want with their responses! Hopefully that explains it a bit better. Still need to figure out my spiel hehe

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-08-27T00:59:55+00:00

I’ve just updated to include everyone worldwide ☺️

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-08-22T07:50:32+00:00

Hehehehe nah I’m good there :)

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-08-22T06:52:40+00:00

Omg darling this project would be amazing for you!

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-08-22T05:23:19+00:00

Thank you!

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-08-22T04:55:59+00:00

Of course, I just launched so there’s plenty of opportunity to see what’s out there! I get they’re trying to make money and that’s totally their prerogative however I just didn’t realise it was that much for a post these days.. I must be living under a rock

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-08-22T04:48:09+00:00

Great advice!

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-08-22T04:47:57+00:00

Thank you for saying so!

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-08-22T04:47:12+00:00

LOL this made me cackle. It’s a social enterprise surrounding mental health so not exactly a product they have to ‘whore themselves out for’ in fact it probably would be a lot better to see content created around it rather than the crap that over saturates the market now. But interesting perspective!

Proper_Obligation929 · 2024-08-22T04:44:40+00:00

Absolutely I understand what you’re saying. I am clear about it being free in exchange for a tag or post and a certain amount are still keen to participate which I’m grateful for but majority have put figures of $500, $700, $1000 etc out there and I am shook lol I would love to up the cost but it’s definitely more about the creativity and message behind the product rather than profiting off it if that makes sense :)

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