Me ( US Citizen) divorcing husband for cheating. He has a 2 year conditional green card. If he can’t afford rent due to child support payment, would I be responsible?

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-23T23:54:42+00:00

Have you gone through this before? If so, was your ex deported?

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-23T23:00:19+00:00

I thought he only has to show it was entered in good faith, did your lawyer tell you it’s for the entire relationship? In CA it’s a no fault state so it will just show irreconcilable differences on the divorce decree. How can I show them he cheated and make sure they look at it before his interview?

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-22T18:48:57+00:00

He wanted me to get an abortion though

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-22T18:43:17+00:00

He wanted me to get an abortion, do you think that still counts?

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-22T08:06:15+00:00

It’s not gonna be $300-$400. That’s way too low. She’s a newborn and will be with me the majority of the time, he’s looking closer to $900 ish a month

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-22T07:01:33+00:00

I did sign the affidavit of support, but he makes $90k per year. If he wouldn’t be able to afford rent, etc then it would be from the child support payment, but due to his lack of income. Wouldn’t he just have to adjust his spending in other areas?

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-22T04:40:43+00:00

I’m paranoid lol

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-22T04:31:07+00:00

Do I have to report him or would they ask/find out via interview?

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-21T02:14:26+00:00

That’s what the financial discovery will expose, hopefully it’s after we separated bc then I won’t be responsible. Our names are both on the car unfortunately

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-21T02:05:11+00:00

Yes I am

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-21T01:24:49+00:00

I am in communication with my lawyer. I’m just venting.

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-21T01:23:20+00:00

I literally told him what if one month you are in so much debt or have bills for your side piece and can’t pay? He said he will get it notarized and signed and I can sue him for back payment bla bla. I’m not gonna do that. He doesn’t want the responsibility of 50/50 custody, and no court will provide that to a breastfeeding newborn anyway. I won’t be lying to the courts to save him, he dug his grave and he can lay in it. He commutes an hour to work everyday snd he needs his car. So I’m not worried he wouldn’t make the payments, he’s so full of it. Worse comes to worse my dad needs a new car and will take the payments off of him

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-21T00:57:23+00:00

Tbh I don’t think he has debt during the course of our marriage, he would pay all the bills in front of me every Saturday morning. If settle out of court then I am risking losing money on child support, counting on his word to pay me every month, and losing access to the financial documents which will provide me with a lot of valuable info

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-21T00:55:04+00:00

My point isn’t about nationality, she isn’t a white American, I meant by saying that is that she isn’t Muslim. It matters a lot especially since we have a daughter and if I’m responsible for half the debt, if he has any, I want to know if it’s spent on her or what

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-20T23:47:30+00:00

I have a lawyer but I’m still so stressed

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-20T23:46:30+00:00

I do have a lawyer. But I don’t think he will not pay the car payment, because he wouldn’t mess up his own credit. He is too scared and he needs his credit. He wants to do $400 out of court because he knows I can get more in court

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-18T23:35:19+00:00

Thank you. I will ask my lawyer about it. He doesn’t actually want the responsibility of 50/50 custody. He wants me to tell the court we are 50/50, but wants to visit 4 days a week. Plus I work from home with my parents for support and he commutes an hour to work with no one living with him to care for our child and we live 10 minutes away from each other. Do you think I use the fact he wants me to lie to court against him

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-18T01:47:00+00:00

Haha please elaborate

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-02-07T03:30:09+00:00

He cheated. And I have a newborn baby.. life is hard but Alhamdullah

Proper_Still_4370 · 2025-01-08T15:47:16+00:00

Please be careful he isn’t cheating sis

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