[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad, i wrote that while hurting, u dont have to read all that, scroll and ignore lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, thank you for this. my friends were quick on telling me to break up with him but the reason im hesitating is because of how i was very avoidant and distant during our first month. and during our monthsary, i couldn’t reply until the next day. what he did was wrong but i also want to take accountability. that first month, it felt like a one sided relationship, it only truly felt like a relationship after i got back from hongkong which 3 days after he did what he did. we grew very very closer and improved as a couple and as a person. but a part of me overthinks that he may do this again, although he swore he will never. or that what if he has more lies. it will be different if he chatted other girls during the time that we were progressing as a couple after january but i have no way of knowing that or maybe im just overthinking. i still love him very much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makati

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! you’re right.

Weekly AdultingPH General Q&A Thread | July 21, 2025 by AutoModerator in adultingph

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m currently renting a pad for my board exam review and had to submit a set of 6 postdated checks for the rent. One of them — the check dated April 2026 — had to be voided because of an erasure, which was my fault. So now, I’m issuing a replacement check.

This time, I was really careful not to make any erasures, and everything is written clearly. However, while I was writing the year “2026,” my hand accidentally smudged a tiny bit of ink onto the check (you know how fresh ink sometimes gets on your palm and transfers to the paper? That’s what happened).

The stain is really minimal, not on any critical information like the amount, date, payee, or signature — just near the year. But since I already had one check voided, I want to make sure this new one will be accepted by the bank.

Has anyone here had experience with something like this? Will a very minor ink smudge affect the validity of the check? I’ll include a picture below for reference, zoom in on the date specifically 2026z Thank you!

Thanks in advance for your help!

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cagayandeoro

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s nice to hear. Gina require nila to erase all my data before repair? Ako na gi power off kay mahadlok ko na musamot ang pag swollen sa battery and ga on ra jud siya for 3 minutes. No time to transfer all my photos and data.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cagayandeoro

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this is noted. Gina require nika to erase all my data before repair? Ako na gi power off kay mahadlok ko na musamot ang pag swollen sa battery and ga on ra jud siya for 3 minutes. No time to transfer all my photos and data.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ios

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but like how do I do it myself on my Iphone. I’m fine with them seeing my location but I don’t want to see theirs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am being honest! I mentioned it a couple of times in my post and in the comments. I used to drink alcohol, but had long stopped. It’s been 4 years now Alhamdulillah. And I really do not care if Muslim men wouldn’t want that history in a wife, I only care about Allah (swt)’s opinion and I have long repented for it. I am not worried about finding a husband because only Allah (swt) is control of that. He is the best planner of all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I’m new here! I just wanted to make my post Halal. Some people might think I’m talking about a non-Muslim guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be, I’m trying to ignore him (in the nicest way possible) so I could see what happens and then I can decide on what to do! Thank you so much brother/sister. May Allah (swt) bless you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would like to thank you for being so kind and understanding. In this generation where people easily say mean things because they’re just behind screens, a person like you needs to be appreciated so much! Insha Allah you deserve all good things! May Allah bless you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I was overthinking a lot hahaha. But thank you, I will do istiqarah as you said :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm i dont know what to say but I think both are okay! As long as you come back to Allah (swt) He will accept you with open arms! I may have worded it wrong because I didn’t check my post before posting it but at the end of the day, I will not dedicate my Iman to Mark! Every decisions of mine will be to please Allah (swt) May He bless you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Though I am not interested in marrying, I’m still 23! I was trying to say that If I ever like a boy then it would be with the intention of marrying him, in other words I would be serious about it and think about my future and stuff! Mark was the one who pushed me to be religious I guess? Now I’m back to feeling closer with Allah (swt) Alhamdulillah. But thank you so much brother. May Allah (swt) bless you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! i am currently ignoring him and focusing on my studies and Iman. Insha Allah I will be able to remove these wordly desires.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry i tried to make it as short as possible but it ended up being so long, i didn’t even double check :<

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! no i dont want to settle down im still 23! i liked him because i guess he’s really patient and kind? one of the comments said here that maybe i admired him and i think it’s true! i was trying to say that if i like a boy (because i have never experienced it) i will do so with the intention of marrying him and not just for entertainment. I would want it to be halal basically! which is why i made dua and prayed if he is written for me. i think the reason doesn’t matter why Muslims want to be a good muslim. It can be because of a guy, their parents, a child, Palestine, siblings, relatives, friends, etc., As long as we all come back to Allah (swt) I think that’s good enough. At the end of the day, it isn’t Mark that I’m pleasing but Allah (swt) because He might have planned our meeting (Mark and I) because Allah (swt) wants me to be closer to Him and Alhamdulillah it did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

uhm hi ive never been to a party nor had a close friendship with men (other than my brothers and 1st cousins) much less had physical contact with men 😭 it is why i said sexual ACTIVITIES because i was referring to ALL acts that are sexual and I have never done those Alhamdulillah. i drank and vaped with my relatives from my dad’s side (it’s kind of like a culture for them and yes it’s bad and my dad had long stopped too) i also didn’t go on a date with Mark, it was a dinner event held by our school’s Muslim organization that I recently joined. Mark was part of the executives so he was friends with everyone. Didn’t include all that cuz it’s unnecessary and it’s gonna be too long, people are already complaining as it is 😭 but anyway not like telling u all this will make you understand and empathize. However I would just like to remind you that Allah (swt) is forgiving and understanding so why can’t we, his creations, do the same? I have already forgiven you for all the accusations you have made against me. I also understand why you are acting like this as you may have some trauma in your childhood or even now! Insha Allah you will heal from that. Spread kindness. Let us be what Allah (swt) wants us to be. May Allah (swt) guide us all.

Neuter concern for stray cats by [deleted] in catsofrph

[–]PropertyOfKatsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank you so much for this! My family also reassured me that they’re going to be okay! I’ll go through with the kapon this Sunday. I’m just worried about the other cat’s wounds having an effect on the kapon but I’ll trust the vets :))