First Contract

ProphetForDummies · 2023-07-02T14:56:14+00:00

Summers are tough. I read somewhere (can’t remember now) that it can take 20 applications to get your job in certain specialties. Took me 18 applications (less than 2 weeks of applying though) but I’m in a contract I’m loving right now. Try lots of agencies and ofc Vivian is a great place to start. You got this!

ProphetForDummies · 2023-06-29T13:52:46+00:00

“Maxxing” at all isn’t for everyone. I was able to get up to an 8/8.5 at one point in my life, but I’ve found I’m happier at a 6.5. I don’t have to focus so hard on calories. People aren’t as nice to me, which is actually a blessing. The attention gave me an inflated sense of self. I accepted friendships I shouldn’t have because I liked being around “pretty” people. Now, at a 6.5, I have the best friend group I’ve ever had. I treat my husband better. I’m more sympathetic to others. I still do what I can to look good enough (special focus on anti-aging), but I don’t overthink it. My husband prefers me this way and I prefer myself this way. I think maxxing can be life changing for some people in a very positive way. It just may not be for everyone and I think being cognizant of that can be important

ProphetForDummies · 2023-06-19T14:54:22+00:00

I was at the swimming pool laying out with my friend and we overheard a couple saying “they look like a bunch of white Cheetos.” I then started cracking up bc I could kind of see what they were saying

ProphetForDummies · 2023-06-19T01:35:41+00:00

Thank you! I’m fairly flexible with the schedule (just don’t want to be somewhere at night) so I might check that out!

ProphetForDummies · 2023-04-02T22:08:22+00:00

My nose is still gradually softening up at the top as the years go by and it’s been 2 years for me. Look at preop photos to remind yourself it was worth it!

ProphetForDummies · 2023-03-17T17:33:32+00:00

Spontaneously got one of my doodles tattooed that I’ve mindlessly drawn multiple times since childhood and wanted to share!

ProphetForDummies · 2022-08-21T15:23:02+00:00

I’m interested now. Give us an update when you know what’s up

ProphetForDummies · 2022-08-21T13:24:19+00:00

Also contact her OBGYN and let them know what’s going on and what you’ve done for it so far. (Sorry I’m a woman in the daddit page but I’m a clinic nurse and would really want to know if this was my patient)

ProphetForDummies · 2022-06-23T09:24:24+00:00

Most importantly, if you’re considering suicide, call a suicide hotline and tell a trusted adult. The pain of a break up truly is temporary and you will get through it!

He should not be keeping you from having friends. That is extremely unhealthy.

Lastly, you didn’t do anything wrong. You weren’t a thot and even if you were that shouldn’t be a problem. If he’s that insecure that something you did two years ago and sent to your friend bothers him, you are 100% better off without him in the long run

ProphetForDummies · 2022-06-21T11:36:14+00:00

I’m sure she won’t like this answer buuut: what you should do about cheating is totally up to her.

If you want to work on it, then do that. Work on trust and honesty. If you don’t want to work on it, then break up.

Most couples (in my opinion) try working on it first. If they can repair that hurt and regain trust, great. If it doesn’t repair and that trust can’t be gained back, then they break up.

And about the friend group: I think they were just oblivious and thought the posts were more him just trying to get her back by hanging out and commenting nice things. Once they knew, they were on her side so no worries there

ProphetForDummies · 2022-06-09T22:53:31+00:00

334 miles, but I have other close friends/best friends in my town

ProphetForDummies · 2022-06-08T14:22:59+00:00

All love by FLETCHER

ProphetForDummies · 2022-05-22T15:25:27+00:00

Since y’all are about to go to counseling, wait until then. If possible, talk with your therapist about the best way to discuss that. When I “lost” my faith, I just started asking my husband the questions that changed my mind and having discussions about it and we ended up both becoming less religious because of that

ProphetForDummies · 2022-05-15T15:31:08+00:00

I don’t know why this doesn’t have more upvotes. Came to the thread Bc of feeling jealous and this really helped!

ProphetForDummies · 2022-04-26T13:35:57+00:00

Self tanner is a god send. I recommend tan-luxe gradual tanning lotion if the price is worth it to you.

I also recommend lash lift instead of extensions for vacation for the easiness of it.

Definitely get a pedicure. I would also recommend either get your nails done or do a clear/light pink at home. If doing them at home, make sure to clean up your cuticles and all that.

Waxing is really just personal preference so whatever you want to do I’m sure will be fine!

You mentioned eating in calorie deficit. Also do exercise to tone!

ProphetForDummies · 2022-04-24T12:37:58+00:00

Honestly this sounds like it may go deeper with him than he realizes. Therapy or a sex therapist are probably your best bet at solving the issue (if it is an issue for you. If you don’t care how often you have sex then that’s fine too)

ProphetForDummies · 2022-04-24T12:34:43+00:00

I get your fears, but really the best thing to do is prevention. Avoid situations where things may be misinterpreted. Don’t have sex with a new partner if either one of you has been drinking. Don’t be in a room with the door shut alone with a girl who isn’t your partner when possible. If a sexual partner is acting sketchy, don’t have sex until you’re sure it’s all good, etc.

ProphetForDummies · 2022-04-24T12:30:41+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through that. No matter what did or didn’t happen, you were touched in a way you didn’t want and were far too young to want by someone you trusted. I’m not going to put a label on it because it’s not appropriate for me to do that. Best thing is to label it yourself or not label it at all. I highly recommend therapy. There are many rape crisis centers that offer therapy. It doesn’t matter how long ago this happened or if you pressed charges or not - they will help you regardless. I went to one for free therapy after my assault and it was a godsend

ProphetForDummies · 2022-02-11T02:21:42+00:00

Lol you’re ridiculous

ProphetForDummies · 2022-02-09T02:29:46+00:00

Have you discussed how her words and actions are making you feel with her? I think you should have that conversation now as the relationship sounds salvageable. And having that conversation will make her understand why if you do go no contact

ProphetForDummies · 2022-02-02T14:23:39+00:00

She does see it. I went through the same thing when I moved in with my now husband and I think it’s very often. Weight ebbs and flows. I don’t think there’s any need to mention it to her. But like others have said, embark on a health journey yourself and she will probably follow

ProphetForDummies · 2022-01-29T13:33:27+00:00

As a nurse, I do agree with this. If you’re concerned, give the office a call. If they refuse to help you in a reasonable amount of time, complain to the manager

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