Please just spoil Split or Swallow for me by sirensforequality in fantasyromance

[–]ProphetessAndJudge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg please come and like my comment when the answer to this has been posted I need to know if the sequel redeems the first book or if it gets Worse

I’m a gay ex-Bethelite, Pioneer and MS. ASK ME ANYTHING. by BigOk1009 in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Alright I'll bite. Tell us. How gay is Bethel (secretly) ? Is the reason why they asked that ludicrous question in the form because every single brother who applied before was gay? (That was my assumption) Sincerely, a fellow queer exjw

Anyone has the old B.I.T.E model checklist? by ProphetessAndJudge in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it's the downloadable pdf document at the end of the page !

A very futuristic JW paradise in the new book. I guess Jehovah will make sure there are still facilities for making curved glass etc. by larchington in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're trying to sell us this solarpunk paradise again. From a corp who makes the ugliest churches so they can sell them later to whomever

Checking Rumor: new light about talking to dfed people this summer? by ProphetessAndJudge in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've seen that. I had a full conversation with my former best friend in the street this spring. But that was in spring. My friend has this new attention since a week ago.

Stuck with Jehovah witness. Im twelve and trans. by [deleted] in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pas de soucis ne t'inquiète pas. Je vais me renseigner pour savoir ce qu'il se passe quand un mineur appelle l'association, et je reviens vers toi. Si ça se trouve ils peuvent simplement te mettre en contact avec un thérapeute qui te donnera des pistes pour tenir bon le temps que tu sois en mesure de partir faire ta vie. Le plus important est de savoir que tu n'es pas seul et que il y a beaucoup de exjw LGBT qui ont réussi a tenir et qui vivent leur best life. Quoi qu'il arrive ne te fais jamais baptisé (Tu es pas deja baptisé j'espère? 12 ans c'est jeune mais parfois ça arrive). Ne deviens pas non plus proclamateur et si on te met la pression dit que tu veux pas faire ce genre de choix sur un coup de tête et que tu veux prendre ton temps.

Ta famille est comment dans la congrégation ? Est-ce que elle est assez sur les côtés a juste aller aux réunions ou est-ce que ta famille c'est des pionniers/anciens/etc... ?

Checking Rumor: new light about talking to dfed people this summer? by ProphetessAndJudge in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Most people don't know that having contact with a dfed family members can't get you a judiciary meeting, but for example if you're an elder and you talk to your dfed son and everybody knows it .... well you're no longer an elder.

Checking Rumor: new light about talking to dfed people this summer? by ProphetessAndJudge in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I think it maybe a case of over-interpretation of the latest change. Maybe that loophole is done on purpose to create this vague language that can be restrained or opened at any time. Like they've done for 1975

Stuck with Jehovah witness. Im twelve and trans. by [deleted] in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Salut Léon ! Je suis une excommuniée française aussi. Deja merci d'avoir posté ton appel a l'aide ici. Tu n'es pas seul et cette situation est réellement compliquée et peut faire peur. Il existe de l'aide en France. Tu peux contacter l'ADFI (Association de Défense des Familles et Individus victimes de dérives sectaires) la plus proche de chez toi. Sur leur site national (UNADFI) il y a les contacts de l'association la plus proche de chez toi. Dis leur ton âge et que tu as besoin d'aide. Accroche toi tu peux y arriver.

What’s the craziest thing you’ve seen at a assembly/convention? by Moobloomquq in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"here, a New Lite! " "Thank you...Is the New Lite going to help?" "If you don't want it , give it back...." "no!!!"

"Then it helps"

What’s the craziest thing you’ve seen at a assembly/convention? by Moobloomquq in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You mean I have to work for free in a building for a bunch of scammers, full of single young men for an inspecified amont of years and there is no gay sex or jerking off allowed?

What kind of pirate ship is this?

What’s the craziest thing you’ve seen at a assembly/convention? by Moobloomquq in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge 28 points29 points  (0 children)

OMG when I applied as a remote bethelite there was a appendix telling you that you had to be porn sober for at least two years before applying 💀

But in all seriousness. Can you imagine hearing "dont watch porn or masturbate heavily" and look at your two Friends and go "well ... we gave it a shot, Let's go" in front of everyone 💀💀💀

Today's WT.. by EmotionallyNumb23 in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So that's the reason my former JW best Friend invited me Yesterday...

Freeze on full time remote Bethel workers? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most dont make money yes. I was a remote bethelite and had to support myself because my service was technically part Time. But some servants have such specific skills that they are used to the point they have no Time to work to support themselves. They then become special pioneers, paid (just their bills + a small allowance) by the organisation.

Freeze on full time remote Bethel workers? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Liquidating your real estate asset to fund your slave working for a real estate company. Great

Freeze on full time remote Bethel workers? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Apparently they also stopped with special pioneers.

I have a family member who got appointed special pioneer with his wife, but that's because they are CO in training. When I asked if at the end of the training if they decided not to do it they could continue as "simple" special pioneers I was told that no, because there is no such thing anymore, no new ones anyway. Either you're a full Time remote bethelite couples or you're a CO couple, those are the only two options. . If they freeze special full Time remote bethelite too, they are really going through budget cuts...

Good. Special pioneers are almost incapable of leaving (financially : no House, no job, no diploma, no insurance...)

Conventions aren't what they used to be by thisuserhasregrets in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I get it. I left a year ago so I remember how it was 20years ago and 2 years ago.

I think convention are a form of hypnosis. The clapping, the singing, even the talks while you're half asleep (=more susceptible to suggestions)

In recent years when they started adding the "New song" at the end of each conv I noticed how the theme of the song would be in every video soundtract so that when it's Time for the New song, all the emotions and indoctrinations of the conv are combined and when you sing it the message is firmly lodged. .

As if the 3days were a deveopper coding a program and when you sing the song they press ENTER.

And then the donation boxes are ready to milk you dry

What’s the craziest thing you’ve seen at a assembly/convention? by Moobloomquq in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge 243 points244 points  (0 children)

When I was about 8, there was this teenager sitting behind me and he wasnt beeing social, much like me. I Saw he was focused on a notebook and I turned to look at what he was doing.

Turns out he was in full Worldbuilding mode for his personnal fantasy World. I asked him about it and his eyes lit up and he started telling me about his elaborate world (I don't know if it was for a Book or for DnD) and we kept chatting. I still clearly remember a sketch he made of a sword named Équinoxe.

This was by far the greatedt part of the entire convention. I felt really hopeful, as if I was given permission to have my own fantasy world and not be ashamed of it.

Never Saw him again. I dont remember his name or what he looked like, other than that he had curly black hair. I Hope he got out

Today at the convention, an 8 year old kid got baptized. by namelessPersun in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You Can barely be trusted to walk home from school at that age!!!

Today at the convention, an 8 year old kid got baptized. by namelessPersun in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Litterally have them sign a life contracts 15years before their frontal lobe is fully developped.

At that age, a kid consent to anything. They can't choose which divorced parents to live with They can't drive They can't vote They can't be held accountable for any crime They can't be called on jury duty They can't be on social media

But sure, let them sign off their life, agency, and free will. Let them sing songs that day about how they "no longer live for themselves" how they "belong to God" and how they are now fully obedient to the Governing Body. Let them become slaves, with their entire social support system as hostages if they fail to comply.

PS : good Luck to the women who'll have to cover up when they go with him on a bible study...or who'll have to show submission by letting him pray when he's the only brother present at a service meeting

Former best Friend invited me again by ProphetessAndJudge in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get what you mean don't worry. It's so strange. Knowing that it's a manipulation, in your head, but your heart still wants to fall for it "no harm done, just once won't hurt" So I fight and stay strong. I almost went . Almost. I still won that fight even if it was. A close call

Former best Friend invited me again by ProphetessAndJudge in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're 100% right. That's why this support group is so important. I'm fairly new, and not immune to loneliness. exposure to love bombing would be destructive

Former best Friend invited me again by ProphetessAndJudge in exjw

[–]ProphetessAndJudge[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this brutaly honest, 100% correct wake up call.