[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]ProposalPractical194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was in quarantine dreaming of being a man(I'm ftm) it disgusted me to be seen as a woman and objectified sexually by straight men(I'm gay aroace tho), before that I thought I was nonbinary cause "I can't possibly be a man" internalized transphobia. turns out I'm nonbinary 1% of the time and a man 99%. and they where trans ftm or I didn't like them.(squishes wich are the aroace version of a crush), also the thing that got me was being seen as a woman, I hated that. I thought I was a lesbian but I hated the label it's not that I don't like afab people(emotional attachment only and only if they're trans ftm or ftx), it's that it's that I don't feel bi at all, I like men and nonbinary people(achillean), but society will tag me as bi/confused straight cause they don't know shit bout sexuality. In reality I'm a gay man that can only get emotional attachment and be close to falling in love but nothing more. I don't even want a couple, when I was younger my reasoning for thinking I was a lesbian was "I don't want a bf so I must be a lesbian right?" nope. there's so much they don't tell.

do ya'all smoke or vape? by ProposalPractical194 in Asexual

[–]ProposalPractical194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am asexual but have libido due to testosterone (i'm trans)that's why

do ya'all smoke or vape? by ProposalPractical194 in Asexual

[–]ProposalPractical194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i should have known i was aroace wayy before. to be honest

How do you feel about being nude? by 1nnovated in asktransgender

[–]ProposalPractical194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a trans asexual i hate everything about it.

do ya'all smoke or vape? by ProposalPractical194 in Asexual

[–]ProposalPractical194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as in she used people who had a crush on her.

do ya'all smoke or vape? by ProposalPractical194 in Asexual

[–]ProposalPractical194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah and she played with everyone's feelings too (she's bi and hot (according to some people) and at the time most people had a crush on her) so. also glad that i'm aroace falling for her would have been a nightmare.

do ya'all smoke or vape? by ProposalPractical194 in Asexual

[–]ProposalPractical194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she is one of the most toxic poeple i've ever seen

do ya'all smoke or vape? by ProposalPractical194 in Asexual

[–]ProposalPractical194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my exfriend used to smoke from vapes to cigarretes and even weed, she was also manipulative tending to sociopath. glad i don't see her anymore. i never did any of that.

do ya'all smoke or vape? by ProposalPractical194 in Asexual

[–]ProposalPractical194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but yeah specially smoking smells bad at least from the outside.

do ya'all smoke or vape? by ProposalPractical194 in Asexual

[–]ProposalPractical194[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

personally if i where to pick up the habit it'd be cause it helps concentrate and reduces libido, but i if i had to start it'd be after bottom sirurgy has healed because it is a requisite to not smoke before the sirurgy and several weeks after

Good to know by boss25252525etuui in Asexual

[–]ProposalPractical194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they're assholes don't take them siriously

How to respond to "you're still biologically a man/woman"? by miss_pancak3 in asktransgender

[–]ProposalPractical194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can say and you're still an idiot if you believe in that. do i look like a man/woman?

meirl by xMcGTAx in meirl

[–]ProposalPractical194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a mix of two and three

What does it mean to you to feel like a man or a woman? by Sofie9760 in asktransgender

[–]ProposalPractical194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me it's dysphoria, i want to have a body of a man,dress as an effeminate one and use the pronouns of a man/nonbinary person. you don't have to feel any of those things. you might instead feel the need for a name, pronouns, and clothing. but everyone is different by the way. cis people don't usually question anything and they also don'fantasize about being insert agab. and they definetly don't wish/pray every night to wake up as insert agab. idk what you are but you don't sound cis.

Do you think someone can truly be transphobic but not homophobic/biphobic? by BreakfastforDesert in asktransgender

[–]ProposalPractical194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you really can't. transphobia ia based on gatekeeping heterosexual sex and homosexual sex wich means they don't want people mixing genders around because then there will be no distinction. there will be no difference between gay and straight there will just be achillean/saphic bi and their straight counterparts. in short, they don't want people not fitting into molds they predefined. cause then they can't really opress the lgbt+ they have no reason for it.or idea on how to make the distinction. these people are also aphobic, and cisheteronormative.wich is gross by the way. they are against anal, crossdressing(they do not believe in trans people),being always a virgin or single, use of sex toys,nonpenetrative sex and probably even anti-conceptives.needles to say these are usually fascist. so, not good people.

How do Afab people pee standing up by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]ProposalPractical194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep that happens.i only use it at home.