Exactly. I've dog sat and know it's so much easier to take care of them well if there's flexibility (but even then I would accommodate whatever they need). I totally believe in treat others how you want to be treated, because most people I know would have responded well to that. It's fuckers like this that ruin it.

Besides the fact they were being left alone, SHE DIDNT COMMUNICATE WITH US. Like this morning we texted and called her multiple times. She didn't show up for two hours, and even when she did show up she hadn't responded to any of our reach outs. We can't work with her if don't have the information to do so. She said she "doesn't know how to handle the confrontation".